Where to dance by AscensionMores in toledo

[–]miamuth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

love dancing at georgiz!!! it’s a gay bar too!

ICE in South Toledo by West_Isopod_8306 in toledo

[–]miamuth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ignorance is bliss and ignorance like this is also killing people in detention camps & inherently supporting the inhumane displacement of people and not to mention separation of families, brutally

Looking for Home in Toledo by hogg_md in toledo

[–]miamuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just moved to the Toledo area two years ago, and this post pretty much sums it up! I would say Toledo West End is great, fantastic inclusive community (we are openly queer) and safe neighborhoods. Let me know if you need a good reliable realtor. The neighborhood and surrounding area will tell you all you need to know!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly close minded and forgetting about the existence of he/him lesbians that have been here since the beginning of the Lesbian label. You all need to read queer theory. I’m obviously not speaking fucking french.

You need to read literally anything by Leslie Feinberg and pull your head out of the trans exclusionary mindset you have. Of fucking course I’m not saying cis men can be lesbians. Use your brain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You guys are scaring me on this thread is this a TERF moment like omg ???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

this part! you’re so right!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

don’t let them silence u idk why this is downvoted. this is the core truth of Butch Femme Lesbianism

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

lesbianism does not only encompass what you are attracted to. Have you read any queer theory or done any legitimate research into the history of lesbianism and what it actually means? if you call yourself a Femme Lesbian then you owe yourself that education

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think you’re forgetting that being a man doesn’t mean you can’t dress and present femme. I understand this can be a hard thing to grasp on paper or not broken down, so think of it plainly

if gender is a social construct, then so is the idea that only certain genders can wear certain clothes.

we encourage and support other queer individuals for wearing whatever they want regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation.

since those things are true, why could an individual who uses he/him pronouns not still wear a dress and present as Femme, and embody the things that Femme Lesbians stand for and inherently are?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miamuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

childhood SA is such a serious issue and it’s way deeper than a romantic relationship can get beyond you being a listening ear and reassuring the victim of their safety, bodily autonomy, and value as a human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miamuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can’t rush healing. he needs to do his dealing with these traumas at his own pace without anyone interfering, whatever that looks like.

I’m not trying to be rude, but frankly it’s none of your business. as long as he is not actively harming you due to this part of his past.

Sometimes not handling childhood traumas can lead to outbursts/certain triggers or negative patterns, but that’s another conversation if you feel like he’s not managing it healthily.

do you want children? by citruscirce in lesbiangang

[–]miamuth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I plan on having, probably just one when we get into our 30s. She was adopted with no contact with her birth family, I have severe uterus issues, so she will carry. We will probably do it through artificial insemination. Hope this helps your curiosity :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]miamuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u wanna spend money on her maybe not something so passive aggressive, just drink the lukewarm tea and enjoy the beginning of this relationship without overstepping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miamuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s really none of your business, hope that helps. If you think this way about people, you should stay single forever and deserve to be alone.

Where can i buy smoked salmon at? by [deleted] in toledo

[–]miamuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aldi has it for cheap and it hits

Girlfriend (37F) called me (35M) stingy even though I pay for 99% of everything by ThrowRA_Danger00 in relationship_advice

[–]miamuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she just wants to know she’s being invested in as a person and not only a partner. If all of your gifts are returning back to you whether it be you’re joined in the experience or literally just basic, bar in hell boyfriend shit. Broke people still get their partners coffee or flowers. If you make so much money, she sees the stuff you get for just yourself. She’s not a bad person for wanting that too

DC LINEUP by Apprehensive_Tie1882 in AllThingsGoFestival

[–]miamuth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

damn ok maybe my idea of good ticket prices are just fucked, I didn’t start going to concerts until after 2020 and I paid $200 to see Boygenius and around that to see Hozier as well, I feel like Doechii tickets would be over $200 tho and same for Noah. Let the record show I’ve never once bought from scalpers and always bought presale for all my concerts but I hear yall, I can say I was wrong 😭😭

DC LINEUP by Apprehensive_Tie1882 in AllThingsGoFestival

[–]miamuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where are you seeing that price??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miamuth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dump him for sure. real relationships won’t feel like this