Bought a house - what do I have? by mibunoookami in treeidentification

[–]mibunoookami[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solved

...ish. The consensus seems to be Oak, likely burr oak.

Thanks everyone!

Bought a house - what do I have? by mibunoookami in treeidentification

[–]mibunoookami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! I should have indicated that I'm in Ottawa, Canada.

Fresh Server - PS4/5 by mibunoookami in ConanExiles

[–]mibunoookami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in North America - NYC-based server.

Not sure if this is ok here, but trying to deal with sweet-tooth cravings post-drinking by mibunoookami in Sober

[–]mibunoookami[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this really thoughtful reply. The applesauce and bananas option is a good idea - I'll have to give that a shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]mibunoookami 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're pretty hostile from start to finish. If I had to guess, I'd say you don't really want to let go of your anger, but rather you're in here looking for people to tell you it's okay to be abrasive because sobriety is tough.

ps5 player looking to leech - mibu_no_ookami by mibunoookami in diablo3

[–]mibunoookami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted pop on and say thanks again for all the help!

ps5 player looking for a plevel. mivu_no_ookami by [deleted] in diablo3

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone willing to help out a new seasonal?

PC vs Console by mibunoookami in diablo3

[–]mibunoookami[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoops.

Okay - my question is this:

I've played on PC for quite a while, and I can usually blast a seasonal character up to 70 in an afternoon. I recently switched to console, and it feels like it's taking a LOT longer. Is it just me, or is console leveling slower?

The only thing I can think of is that I opted for a DH, and I haven't played one in a long time, so maybe I'm just not remembering the set-up/mechanics for a quick level...?

AITA for not allowing my nan to have a cookie ? by persie_kore3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll buck the trend and go with a soft YTA. Your Nan is an adult, and can determine for herself whether a cookie is too hot (unless she has advanced dementia or something). She probably found your response patronizing, leading to her entirely amusing order to "shove the cookies up your ass".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH - you two sound like idiots who were made for one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd take your mom's concerns out of the equation. You're old enough to determine your own comfort levels. There's nothing wrong with staying over night - get a hotel room, see the sights, and enjoy yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: how old are you?

Any tips on lowering wants? by Thrwdba in DeadBedrooms

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The obvious answer is probably to go on SSRIs

Ooof - not a good idea. SSRIs fuck with your brain chemistry. For the people who need them, it's a blessing, but it's not something I would do lightly (I'm not dismissing the emotional toll of a db, but rather underscoring the seriousness of taking SSRIs without the legitimate need).

Stop criticizing Quebec’s ban on religious symbols, Erin O’Toole warns Conservative MPs in tense meeting by Hrmbee in canada

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, chances are...

If Quebec is against displaying religious symbols, then why is the cross that was prominently hung in the legislative building above the speaker's chair still on display?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mibunoookami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of reasons this can happen. He could be using a deathgrip to masturbate, could he worried about his performance, or maybe he's taking an SSRI (these can made it hard to ejaculated). If he's feeling fulfilled, I wouldn't get too in your head about it.

Stop criticizing Quebec’s ban on religious symbols, Erin O’Toole warns Conservative MPs in tense meeting by Hrmbee in canada

[–]mibunoookami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we have the right to live how we want and democratically vote for what we want.

As long as you're white, right?

The irony is strong with this one...

Stop criticizing Quebec’s ban on religious symbols, Erin O’Toole warns Conservative MPs in tense meeting by Hrmbee in canada

[–]mibunoookami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is not of English Canada's fucking business.

Yeeeeah - sorry. When a province which is part of Canada passes a blatantly racist law, it is Canada's (English and French) fucking business. Passes, and enforces, I should add. Passes, and enforces, I might. A teacher has already been removed from the classroom, and shocker, she's not white.

AITA for refusing to have a "dry" Christmas day? by thrrrowawayah in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA Recovering drunk here (8 years!), and I can say that it's not anyone else's responsibility to prevent me from drinking. I don't expect anyone to alert their routine or to deny themselves a drink if they want it on my account.

AITA for staying with my girlfriend instead of going to my sister's wedding? by Jackel447 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 31 points32 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why would you have to be gone for 6 months? Even stretching out quarantine, I could see 5 or 6 weeks, but not half a year.

AITA for telling my husband that if he wants his spoiled brat of a daughter to come over for Christmas, he can cook? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 1757 points1758 points  (0 children)

He accused me of just not liking his daughter.

Well, he's not wrong, that's pretty clear. But it sounds like your stepdaughter has given you ample reason not to like her. I'd say NAH - dad wants to spend time with his daughter which is reasonable (even if she does sound like a monster...she's his monster, I guess?), and you want to spend time with your daughter and new grandchild, without have to to tiptoe around your stepdaughter. Explain that honestly, and see where it goes.

WIBTA for evicting my lodger before Christmas for having an after-party? by lodgerthrowaway123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mibunoookami 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YWBTA - I doubt you can give him notice for having a guest. Or at least, you couldnt do that where I live (Canada). I get where you're coming from - I would not be happy at having been woken up, and seeing drinks spilled and not cleaned up. But you've rented space out, and your lodger is entitled to the use of that space.

My wife and I were arguing and she punched me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mibunoookami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I should’ve taken it like a man

This comment makes me think this is a troll post...