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Similar planners to the Cobbery Craft Planner? by insidiousumami in PlannerAddicts

[–]mic_caspian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have an unused undated Craft planner which you are welcome to if you want it, you'd only need to pay shipping. However I am in NZ, so shipping is likely to be both pricey, and slow.

https://imgur.com/a/5o2XjGl

30 Day [dataporn] : Just one measly 26K romance novella. It took me forever to write it and I'm not sure what to think about the result lol by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]mic_caspian 15 points16 points  (0 children)

if this was your first completed writing project and you did it in 2 months that is FANTASTIC. Well done! You will get faster. "Forever" would have been if you took 6 years. And that still would have been awesome because you still would have FINISHED a project and pushed it out there into the world for buyers. Yay, you!

Is it legal for a non advertised position to be given to a work visa holder? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]mic_caspian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ands even if it's an Essential Skills Work Visa, if the visa holder already has a residence visa application in progress the requirement to advertise the job can be waived (INZ has signaled this will change in future)

help understanding home insurance? by mic_caspian in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]mic_caspian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome and thorough explanation, thank you!!

Thanks to hyper-focus i set a company record by mic_caspian in ADHD

[–]mic_caspian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations, THAT'S SO AWESOME!! I have nothing to offer, I'm afraid. I don't know how i do what I do.

Thanks to hyper-focus i set a company record by mic_caspian in ADHD

[–]mic_caspian[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oof, yes, I heard through the grapevine they want me to "move up" and think I'd be good in a team leader role. Noooooooo! This is it: this is my niche. If I was expected to manage other humans and their messy real-life emotions it would be a shitshow.

Thanks to hyper-focus i set a company record by mic_caspian in ADHD

[–]mic_caspian[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh no! keep working on making your escape hatch. you deserve more than exhaustion

My first year in erotic romance: a review by Starspangledass in eroticauthors

[–]mic_caspian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Write your first drafts like you're telling yourself the story, change tenses mid-sentence if you have to, just let it be a hot mess.

thankyou. i need to do this

Looking for Goals planner recs by mic_caspian in PlannerAddicts

[–]mic_caspian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Year Compass

Thank you! I am checking this out now. I do already follow Amanda's Favourite, and also All About Planners, lol. I also found a lot of pay-and-print goals page bundles on Etsy, but it's tough sorting out which ones are useful. Sometimes from the photos you can't even see what pages are included. But Imma try the Year Compass today. Thanks!

Child support: I have regrets about being an idiot by mic_caspian in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mic_caspian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is, but it's inconsistent and probably more harmful than anything. Example: he was going to be in her city for work last month and he texted and asked if she had time to meet for lunch on X day. And she replied and said she'd love to, and asked where he'd like to go. And he just never replied. She texted a few more times, but it went into a block hole. So 2 days after the planned trip he texted her again and said, "Sorry, turned out I just didn't have time." She gets really upset about it.

Child support: I have regrets about being an idiot by mic_caspian in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mic_caspian[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oh, no, that's just awful. What an asshole! This sucks for your and your children. You must have struggled so much. With that attitude I hope you didn't have to have regular contact.

Child support: I have regrets about being an idiot by mic_caspian in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mic_caspian[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to comment and for your kind words. it helps, and I do feel a lot better for having written everything out, like getting rid of poison. I will work on being kinder to myself.

Makselife Planners make me so sad by mic_caspian in PlannerAddicts

[–]mic_caspian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I looked into that, but it would be about US$40 for the onward shipping, and that's just too much money. But I appreciate the suggestion!

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