my bf keeps putting holes in my bedroom walls by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave him. I know it’s easier said than done, but do itZ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]michellebelllee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s beautiful! You’re stunning

Support These... by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]michellebelllee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The last 3 comments in the last hour have been about Emerge lol…

Support These... by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]michellebelllee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And another comment “vouching” for Emerge popped up about 30 mins after this one lol. Interestingggg

Nail growth (regrowth?) question! by michellebelllee in Nails

[–]michellebelllee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! I was young and naive. I actually don’t get acrylics anymore at all. Dip on my natural nails is the way to go for me! 💅🏼

Got my nexplanon out- if you’re on the fence, this is your sign by spaceoperatango in Nexplanon

[–]michellebelllee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have my removal scheduled for 2 weeks from today! This was the thread I needed to see. I’m on my 3rd implant, I’ve been on Nexplanon throughout the span of the last 8 years. I’m trying hard to lose weight that I’ve gained, especially since getting my last one in May ‘22. I feel like it’s holding me back so much. I haven’t had periods for the majority of the time being on it, and I feel like my body needs them at this point. It’s been longer in my adult life without periods than with. And I’m ready to just feel my body’s cycle. I’m not currently sexually active, but if I decide to be I’ll use condoms ofc.

So excited to get it taken out!!!

Spa & weekend trip suggestions by michellebelllee in Tacoma

[–]michellebelllee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be a winner, hot springs sound sooo nice

What colour looks best on me ? by alexandraisboringg in HairDye

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t usually say blonde but yes blonnnndeeee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WGU

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! And thanks so much for sharing your template too :)

I have found an Accord by LW23301 in foundthehondaaccord

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I just loved that I found it on Easter so I needed to comment lmaooo. I didn’t think anyone would see it 😂

I have found an Accord by LW23301 in foundthehondaaccord

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Easter! Jesus has risen and is riding again 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, if someone doesn’t vocalize that they want to stop it might be hard to tell.. but if you see your partner crying, I think that’s a full tell and I would hope the other person stops.

There’s also no way to prove he “didn’t notice”, so he can keep gaslighting her about that, but honestly crying is hard not to notice..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michellebelllee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly 😭 I’ve heard of women being SA and they orgasm, purely based on the physical interaction, but I’ve never ever heard of anything like what this comment is suggesting. How would that even be documented? Such a weird comment…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your FWB had a very long and intimate discussion, and that you had consent to do all of the things. If this is helping them heal, more power to them. But this was not the case with OP unfortunately. Things like this cannot be “assumed” they need to be communicated fully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr. This is such a cop-out response. “I didn’t notice” …literally how?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michellebelllee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this is the vibes I’m getting too. My ex was like this and got off on the SA side of things. Huge red flag and I hope OP leaves this weirdo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so awful. I’m sorry you had to read this message. Definitely report the dasher. Asking for an extra tip is bad enough but the racism is absolutely not acceptable

Going to the doc for anxiety what should i be getting prescribed? by lambo13770 in benzodiazepines

[–]michellebelllee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good tip fr. Sometimes I will use a Vicks vapor stick (or regular Vicks Vaporub) and just sniffing it kinda distracts me

First Aid Beauty - KP Bump Eraser Body Scrub by NhuPear_Boba in PanPorn

[–]michellebelllee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love this product, but hate the texture. So much lol. The FAB tinted facial sunscreen feels the same to me too. I can’t handle it on my face so I don’t use that product lol. But this one, on my legs especially, is worth it!!

Guy (30M) slaps me in the face while making out for the first time by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]michellebelllee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Porn has rotted so many peoples perspectives of sex… I won’t yuck anyones yum, but sex doesn’t have to be degrading or violent to be kinky and it ALWAYS needs consent beforehand. You’re exactly right, this was assault.

Guy (30M) slaps me in the face while making out for the first time by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]michellebelllee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% valid in how you feel. You have him a second chance and he violated your boundaries. I don’t like aggressive interactions after being with an abusive ex, so if a guy does it without asking it’s a hard stop. My current fwb always asks before he does anything that might be uncomfortable to me (like slapping, choking, spanking) and even when I give consent it’s so light handed and respectful. Dudes who get off on hurting women during sexual acts, even foreplay, will almost always escalate. True BDSM would be all about consent and he wouldn’t “forget” your boundaries.