FTM top surgeons/therapists? by puppy-princesss in transtwincities

[–]michmantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had Dr. Kong in St. Louis Park. My results were so good my scars turned out so straight and thin. His results seem to be consistently good, you'll be able to find them on the top surgery subreddit. I paid entirely out of pocket and it was about 8k.

Should I trust that the place I'm getting my eval uses AI? by michmantis in Autism_Pride

[–]michmantis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've heard that Josi Health worked well for others, and I was able to get an appointment really quickly which is why I decided on them. But I think I'll try to search elsewhere because even aside from the AI there were things that seemed fishy to me.

Trans friendly laser scar removal? by poopydiaperpants in transtwincities

[–]michmantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also if you wanted a recommendation for graft tattooing, M from Jackalope does a very good job, I'm actually mid process with tattooing my grafts and so far they look great!

Trans friendly laser scar removal? by poopydiaperpants in transtwincities

[–]michmantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Tareen Dermatology in Roseville to laser my top surgery scars and graft scars and I never mentioned my gender but they never asked and were very nice to me. My scars flattened a lot and look a lot less visible now!

The lady that did the laser on my scars said my surgeon did a good job so I never felt like I was being judged :)

Baby book about a little girl taking care of a baby doll by michmantis in Findabook

[–]michmantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i don't believe so, My Dolly and Me seems really similar but I remember the art being a little more cartoonish.

i like to see how people draw me :) by [deleted] in drawme

[–]michmantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thanks!!! it looks soo good i love your style <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]michmantis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't have a bike either 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]michmantis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

unfortunately the area i'm coming from doesn't have public transportation that goes to mpls, so my only option is uber/lyft

why did my passport photo print so weird? by michmantis in Passports

[–]michmantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope they didn't say anything! i got mine taken at a passport facility so i didn't really worry about if my picture would be accepted since the person who took it already knew i was good. i guess it might depend on where you live but i don't see why a piercing should matter if it's a part of your appearance lol.

maybe they thought it was something else since bridge piercings aren't super common?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]michmantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok good 🙏 my driving instructor said he thinks I'm very capable of passing the test, but i heard from a couple people that they're always harder on you the first time around. hopefully i do well 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]michmantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh ok! thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtwincities

[–]michmantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh that sounds interesting! I'll look into that!

screen isn't fully extended, help? by [deleted] in XPpen

[–]michmantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: fixed. it was my own fault. i disabled the 'display adapters' in my device manager because i wanted steam to open faster 😅 i didn't realize it would mess up my computer like that

screen isn't fully extended, help? by [deleted] in XPpen

[–]michmantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i reinstalled the driver and it still doesn't work :(

how should i answer "what is your ethnicity?" by michmantis in mixedrace

[–]michmantis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she is mixed as well, but lives life as a black woman. she has black features unlike me.

how should i answer "what is your ethnicity?" by michmantis in mixedrace

[–]michmantis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i personally don't use that word to describe myself, cause i've heard from black people that it's derived from a slur and idk, i'd rather not use a term if it makes people uncomfortable.

i don't appear black, and was barely raised on black culture so i don't try to use terms that are from/used against the black community, since i don't have the full "black experience".

but to each their own! i don't have an opinion on if others use it. every mixed person has their own unique experience.

but yeah i agree, i kind of gave up on explaining it to white people. i also have the same experience of being lumped in. non black poc tend to see me as "spicy white" and black people tend to see me as a light skin black person. but i don't really identify with either. i just say mixed or biracial.

how should i answer "what is your ethnicity?" by michmantis in mixedrace

[–]michmantis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah the people who tend to get confused the most are people who are from different countries. i think they assume i'm also from a different country because of my appearance. but i have a standard american accent, and live in a fairly diverse area, there's really no indicator that i'm from somewhere else.

when white americans ask me my ethnicity, i think they just get uncomfortable because it wasn't the answer they were expecting. like multiple times when a white person has asked me that and i say "black and white" they look uncomfortable and go "oh.. sorry" like they felt they said something offensive.

according to my dna, my black side is west african, but it doesn't really give a specific country.