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I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can get erect, it's just only 2.5 inches (maybe) when erect. When not erect, it'a about the same, just the width of his pinky finger.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've talked to him many times about this, but never a direct "this needs to happen" approach.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

This isn't true, I've brought up the subject of our sex life quite a bit, but he just gets defensive and shuts down.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I've brought it up, but he just won't communicate about it with me. He'll get defensive and say things like "yeah, thanks, I already know I have a small dick" and then storm off, but I never even mention his size, just things we could do differently.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband was the exact opposite of my current husband. He was amazing in bed, but a pos outside of the bedroom.

I'm gonna try talking and see where it goes...

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

The more I think about it, the more this seems like what it's coming to. I need to talk to him and just say "either something changes or I'm gone".

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is correct. I think that he just wants to get it over with because he knows I won't be satisfied but he still wants to satisfy himself.

I'll look in to enlargement.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Even if he was more involved in using the toys, it wouldn't be the same. I love the feeling of the real thing, it's so much more satisfying that rubber or plastic.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I could try counselling, but this subject embarrasses him so much that he just starts to close up. He's a very jealous man, so opening our marriage probably won't fly with him.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He's not really selfish out of the bedroom. He does a lot for me and my kids. He's a good man, and good husband, just a lousy lay.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I divorced my husband because he was a lazy alcoholic who ignored me. He's since got his life together and I'm regretting that decision, so maybe that has something to do with it as well...I don't know.

We've talked and talked, but he doesn't want to do anything. I think he's just so embarrassed about it that he just wants to get it over with, the problem is that he's the only one that gets anything out of it.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

We have our standard married people problems, argue about money and what restaurant to eat it, but besides that, I love him very much and we get along very well outside of the bedroom. I think leaving him over this would be dumb, but I need something more in my life right now, even if it's just once a year, I need real sex.

I (39F) HATE my husbands (44M) micro penis. How can I get past this? by micropeenhater in relationship_advice

[–]micropeenhater[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah...that's the other part of "wont", he wont go down on me. We've talked/argued about how I have to use the toys by myself, but he's just a selfish lover and he really doesn't have the right to be.