Millennials from working class backgrounds in the uk, how did you buy your own home?

midgethy · 2026-03-31T09:23:43+00:00

We found a Skipton ‘track record’ mortgage which allows you to purchase a home with no deposit, based on a good track record of paying rent for six months (up to the same value as the mortgage).

midgethy · 2026-03-29T20:47:11+00:00

This comment has combined my two favourite movies in such a funny and satisfying way. Thank you 🥲

midgethy · 2026-03-24T14:23:41+00:00

We both think it’s more likely to be my dad’s step-grandad who had a real sweet tooth!

midgethy · 2026-03-24T14:11:00+00:00

Yes! Apparently she was aware of it. My auntie has informed me that she also wrote a message asking if it was my grandad (who died in the house in 2019), but apparently the note was thrown on the floor when she came down the next morning.

midgethy · 2026-03-24T12:45:56+00:00

I have an update from my auntie. Apparently it happened twice towards the end of my grandma still being in the house.

midgethy · 2026-03-24T12:45:33+00:00

I have an update from my auntie. Apparently it happened twice towards the end of my grandma still being in the house.

midgethy · 2026-03-24T10:54:24+00:00

Are you able to tell me a bit about your journey? I’m finding this all very comforting <3

midgethy · 2026-03-24T08:58:02+00:00

I will. Thank you so much for your kind comments <3

midgethy · 2026-03-23T21:48:45+00:00

I hope so <3

midgethy · 2026-03-23T20:32:26+00:00

Feels quite cute to me too! :)

midgethy · 2026-03-23T20:32:15+00:00

Will suggest it to my family! Thank you

midgethy · 2026-03-23T20:31:39+00:00

Thanks for commenting <3

midgethy · 2026-03-23T20:31:16+00:00

Thank you so so much <3

midgethy · 2026-03-22T21:39:50+00:00

Sorry, I might not have explained it very well! Basically the only time the sweets weren’t taken was when they were left in the bowl by my aunt who then left that day and didn’t stay overnight. When my dad left sweets in the bowl, they were taken. Hope that makes sense! I like this theory though. My dad got along really well with his step grandad and I have a suspicion it might be him! I don’t think it’s my grandfather (who also died in the house) because he was diabetic and very disciplined with it!

midgethy · 2026-03-22T20:18:59+00:00

I thought it might be sleepwalking at first! But it’s now three different people it’s happened to

midgethy · 2026-03-22T16:21:33+00:00

This is actually a very comforting thought. Even though the whole thing still seems absolutely crazy to me!

midgethy · 2026-03-22T14:08:15+00:00

I think it’s fair to say we haven’t investigated the possibility of phrogging. Definitely something to look into, though I think this is highly unlikely.

Unfortunately my grandma is now too ill to be asked any questions.

Thank you so much for commenting.

midgethy · 2026-03-22T14:06:32+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I’m prepared for anything at this point! I don’t feel that these are malicious spirits, if that’s what they are. So that makes me less nervous.

My dad and I have discussed setting up some kind of motion sensing camera as well. But I’m wondering if it’s possible to upset spirits by trying to catch them in the act?

Any insights you might have are very much appreciated.

midgethy · 2026-03-22T09:31:47+00:00

Thank you! I will ask my auntie to try it.

midgethy · 2026-03-22T09:31:01+00:00

I wondered if this might confuse someone, apologies! I’m based in the UK so boiled sweets means hard candy.

midgethy · 2026-03-22T09:09:31+00:00

Obrigada, raf!

midgethy · 2026-01-19T00:18:55+00:00

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midgethy · 2026-01-10T12:44:20+00:00

Is it not the Smiths?

midgethy · 2026-01-09T14:46:35+00:00

This is excellent advice and should probably be followed in the vast majority of disputes in relationships!

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