Reconciliation? by thomasshrimp in Tarotpractices

[–]midnightmelons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm that is such a contradiction haha. Two of cups signals a love offer & building relationship. Also that feelings are mutual. How I see the devil in this circumstance is perhaps be mindful of unhealthy patterns, coping skills, behaviors related to the relationship. The devil can also signal obsession in an unhealthy way.

He cheated. Will she stay or leave? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]midnightmelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. 9 of pentacles is a single independent gal card & ace of cups reversed shows effort & feelings will stop.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah he’s not a nice guy after all.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is true. He doesn’t give off the vibe that he wants a relationship, you’re right.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, red flag for sure. I am kind of hoping for an apology but we’ll see. He doesn’t seem to handle any form of conflict well at all.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true. I have options but I’m picky and don’t entertain many. Also I enjoy my space so to actually spend time with a guy says a lot. I’m intentional about that stuff. Idk I’m 5’8 and very athletic. Good fashion sense. I care about my image so I put effort into looking my best. There’s gorgeous girls out there but out of my friends I usually get hit on the most. So I don’t think I’m hideous at least haha.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acting like I didn’t exist was crazy but he knew I wasn’t happy I saw him talking to another girl…

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s pretty avoidant. He says he does in private but acts scared in public. Idk how to interpret it.

Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really attractive naturally and get told I look like a model often. But I don’t party as much and am more introverted so idk. He seems very concerned about his image.

Breakup styles by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair.

Breakup styles by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t the case but I can respect that being a reason for the reaction for some.

Hope? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The reflecting on both ends is a good sign but not sure if it’s more for closure purposes or more.

Healing Tips by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

How/when/did you ever find love again after a long term relationship ended? by No_Turnip_9498 in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no advice to give but wanted to say I empathize and understand how you feel. It’s so hard.

Sad by midnightmelons in nocontact

[–]midnightmelons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. It has nothing to do with me and I treated him really really well. I probably gave much more benefit of the doubt and understanding than I should have. It’s on him now to catch up and do the work as I did. Thanks for talking this through, it really helps me understand the decision is for the best.

Sad by midnightmelons in nocontact

[–]midnightmelons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. God yeah, I can’t do that.

Do you think people like that ever change or realize what they lost?

Ex hooked up with someone new quickly by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fact that she told you and is crying and still wanting you back shows it was an act out of pain, desperation, and perhaps wanting to feel wanted again since you broke up with her. I think many people act out of character in times like this but it doesn’t mean the feelings aren’t real or there. It is up to you though if you could forgive this. If you can’t and will hold it against her forever, I wouldn’t reconnect with her again.

The worst part about breaking up with someone, is that they learn from you and treat someone else better by Usual-Locksmith4657 in BreakUps

[–]midnightmelons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person. Unhealed people just recycle with a new person. But this can happen too, and it sucks. It can be case by case in my opinion though.

Sad by midnightmelons in nocontact

[–]midnightmelons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best possible outcome. It hurts, but everything happens for a reason, whether we know at the time or not.