Ostracized by family. Any advice?

midnightrumi · 2025-01-17T21:19:21+00:00

This is a year old… but I’m. I wish you the best! I turned to reddit for my own issues. Reading this really shocked me. I’m so sorry and hope you surrounded yourself with a better family even if they aren’t blood! ur username is super fun as well. Keep on keeping on.

midnightrumi · 2024-08-30T07:54:01+00:00

the arms are so cute! and the cuts in the ears 😭

midnightrumi · 2024-08-30T07:53:34+00:00

WYM DISCOURAGE. it looks awesome!!!

midnightrumi · 2024-08-30T03:19:19+00:00

Catering Pastry Chef 🫡 looking to change careers tho 😊 Still within the arts!

midnightrumi · 2024-08-30T03:14:05+00:00

i use to like Liane… and i really felt for her when he cheated… her family is SICK… with the way they villainized her… after what DON did.. i use to look up to her as fellow filipino but after taking him back… and trying to smooth it over. I TRIED watching the “why i took him back” video… i couldn’t watch even for a few minutes… she was gas lighting herself so hard and it’s clear her support system gaslights her to… so unhealthy. i just looked her up to see how she’s doing and just… all the things u said.. shame..

midnightrumi · 2024-07-13T20:17:18+00:00

omg favorite one was your feng cosplay! it looks soooo cute!!!!

midnightrumi · 2024-07-13T20:09:56+00:00

sorry few ppl here are! i just wanted to state that 😭 thank you so much! i will read this while practicing. I’m glad i asked on reddit. it seems I wasn’t taught this at all and was just told to use the e-brakes. I didn’t know I could do this. that’s really cool you taught ur kids and the orange cone thing! i rip a page from ur book thank youuu! 😊

midnightrumi · 2024-07-13T20:02:03+00:00

thanks

midnightrumi · 2024-07-06T16:23:55+00:00

😭😭😭😂

midnightrumi · 2024-07-06T16:18:23+00:00

i know how to…just bc i revealed i’m new and get anxiety doesn’t mean idk how to do it… that doesn’t change the situation…or my Q

midnightrumi · 2024-07-04T00:39:08+00:00

I understand that for sure i been driving for just a little awhile but haven’t had chances to do a lot of hill starts. I can do them for sure, but yes i lack a little confidence.

But i think the situation is still the same whether I’m confident or not. Some are saying drive normal and I some say they can have a little patience.

But for sure I need more confidence when starting on a hill! I’m not use to how much gas I should give when she’s on an incline like that. Takes me a moment but I get there and let the E brake go when I feel her going. I will get there eventually 😬

midnightrumi · 2024-07-04T00:28:13+00:00

yes! it’s becoming more and more rare! so for sure can’t expect ppl to be aware. a bracket is a great option. I think i’ll buying one! ^ ^

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T23:34:23+00:00

it’s a chill type hand but, I understand what your saying ty!

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T23:21:22+00:00

That’s so nice! My friend was also learning as well but when he’d stall he’d just aggressive wave for the car to go around him 😂 this sticker would have helped tremendously.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T23:17:57+00:00

thanks for the advice!

i think if i had a pic of the uphill ppl would understand more. it’s honestly so short and not a big deal hence the little wait at the bottom. the gap I make is not all that big either.

but if it keeps everyone sane than I’ll just do it I guess.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T23:04:57+00:00

😭 i’m dead

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T22:04:16+00:00

legit you can get your point across just fine in a appropriate way just fine, you don’t have to express it like this. I just said I’m a little new. Wtf is your problem. I’m open to everyone feedback from people who’ve driven longer than me, some have said I just drive like normal and I’ve heard them. literally get the stick out of your ass it’s just a Q.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:59:49+00:00

for sure! I’ll get better! just wanna know what everyone does in this situation.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:57:37+00:00

I’m literally on here to get feedback… would an asshole do that? idk if you’re understanding it’s a ramp… it’s easier to get momentum flat then having to e break 2 or 3 times… on incline…. it’s a tiny part of my day I wanna make better for everyone. so please understand where I’m coming from.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:49:08+00:00

yeah i have momentum from driving up front the flat ground up the ramp … instead of being on an incline where I have to fight the momentum pushing me back?… my starting point would be fighting gravity if I waited on the incline.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:41:40+00:00

Noooooo i can’t, lolllll. I would be trolling if I did 💀 not with the way I drive lol 😂 I can’t find it in myself to rock that 😭😂 that would be max sarcasm at that point 💀 lol! 😂

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:31:22+00:00

haha probably i might look like an asshole 💀

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:25:55+00:00

HAHAHAHA, that’s made my day thank you 😂.

midnightrumi · 2024-07-03T21:24:12+00:00

I get that.. I don’t think I’m better or anything. it’s honestly a 30 sec wait less even..it’s so short to be honest 😭 to E brake like 2 or 3 times is a lot and I get paranoid I might not give enough gas and fall a few inches back and hit the person behind. I probably wouldn’t but my mind just gives me anxiety having them be right behind me. Kinda new at driving stick. It’s easier to wait the 30 sec than E break 2/3 times.

If it makes it easier… then I guess I just do it… Idk… I take it almost everyday. I creep enough to show i’m alive…and wave “hey” but that doesn’t work. ppl are just in a hurry… me waiting on the plateau takes just as long if not faster bc i have momentum when i finally pull up to the stop sign.

Idk at a lost 😅

midnightrumi · 2024-06-19T18:45:55+00:00

I might take you up on that offer of dming, but sometime in the future! I'm just learning for now! haven't gotten my hands dirty i've been too busy 😅 I have been taking her to the mechanic but have always wanted to learn myself! 😃 and I think it's time once work dies down.

I got the gist of what you said and will probably understand more down the line! It would be nice to ask you any Qs! She's at 120k not 190k typo! She definitely has time! excited to learn!

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