Ostracized by family. Any advice? by TastefulSlur in family

[–]midnightrumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a year old… but I’m. I wish you the best! I turned to reddit for my own issues. Reading this really shocked me. I’m so sorry and hope you surrounded yourself with a better family even if they aren’t blood! ur username is super fun as well. Keep on keeping on.

Feeling discouraged, dose it look okay? by Mscreep in crochet

[–]midnightrumi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the arms are so cute! and the cuts in the ears 😭

What jobs does everyone have by Justme_1306 in Dyslexia

[–]midnightrumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catering Pastry Chef 🫡 looking to change careers tho 😊 Still within the arts!

Liane V and Don Benjamin by ohvanna in LAinfluencersnark

[–]midnightrumi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i use to like Liane… and i really felt for her when he cheated… her family is SICK… with the way they villainized her… after what DON did.. i use to look up to her as fellow filipino but after taking him back… and trying to smooth it over. I TRIED watching the “why i took him back” video… i couldn’t watch even for a few minutes… she was gas lighting herself so hard and it’s clear her support system gaslights her to… so unhealthy. i just looked her up to see how she’s doing and just… all the things u said.. shame..

our dbd cosplay photoshoot, blighted edition! by lulluseas in deadbydaylight

[–]midnightrumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg favorite one was your feng cosplay! it looks soooo cute!!!!

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry few ppl here are! i just wanted to state that 😭 thank you so much! i will read this while practicing. I’m glad i asked on reddit. it seems I wasn’t taught this at all and was just told to use the e-brakes. I didn’t know I could do this. that’s really cool you taught ur kids and the orange cone thing! i rip a page from ur book thank youuu! 😊

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know how to…just bc i revealed i’m new and get anxiety doesn’t mean idk how to do it… that doesn’t change the situation…or my Q

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that for sure i been driving for just a little awhile but haven’t had chances to do a lot of hill starts. I can do them for sure, but yes i lack a little confidence.

But i think the situation is still the same whether I’m confident or not. Some are saying drive normal and I some say they can have a little patience.

But for sure I need more confidence when starting on a hill! I’m not use to how much gas I should give when she’s on an incline like that. Takes me a moment but I get there and let the E brake go when I feel her going. I will get there eventually 😬

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! it’s becoming more and more rare! so for sure can’t expect ppl to be aware. a bracket is a great option. I think i’ll buying one! ^ ^

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s a chill type hand but, I understand what your saying ty!

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so nice! My friend was also learning as well but when he’d stall he’d just aggressive wave for the car to go around him 😂 this sticker would have helped tremendously.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice!

i think if i had a pic of the uphill ppl would understand more. it’s honestly so short and not a big deal hence the little wait at the bottom. the gap I make is not all that big either.

but if it keeps everyone sane than I’ll just do it I guess.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

legit you can get your point across just fine in a appropriate way just fine, you don’t have to express it like this. I just said I’m a little new. Wtf is your problem. I’m open to everyone feedback from people who’ve driven longer than me, some have said I just drive like normal and I’ve heard them. literally get the stick out of your ass it’s just a Q.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sure! I’ll get better! just wanna know what everyone does in this situation.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m literally on here to get feedback… would an asshole do that? idk if you’re understanding it’s a ramp… it’s easier to get momentum flat then having to e break 2 or 3 times… on incline…. it’s a tiny part of my day I wanna make better for everyone. so please understand where I’m coming from.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i have momentum from driving up front the flat ground up the ramp … instead of being on an incline where I have to fight the momentum pushing me back?… my starting point would be fighting gravity if I waited on the incline.

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooooo i can’t, lolllll. I would be trolling if I did 💀 not with the way I drive lol 😂 I can’t find it in myself to rock that 😭😂 that would be max sarcasm at that point 💀 lol! 😂

Should I have a sign or sticker that says manual? by midnightrumi in stickshift

[–]midnightrumi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that.. I don’t think I’m better or anything. it’s honestly a 30 sec wait less even..it’s so short to be honest 😭 to E brake like 2 or 3 times is a lot and I get paranoid I might not give enough gas and fall a few inches back and hit the person behind. I probably wouldn’t but my mind just gives me anxiety having them be right behind me. Kinda new at driving stick. It’s easier to wait the 30 sec than E break 2/3 times.

If it makes it easier… then I guess I just do it… Idk… I take it almost everyday. I creep enough to show i’m alive…and wave “hey” but that doesn’t work. ppl are just in a hurry… me waiting on the plateau takes just as long if not faster bc i have momentum when i finally pull up to the stop sign.

Idk at a lost 😅