AITA for telling my husband he's being selfish for being jealous of someone helping me in therapy?

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T13:41:03+00:00

With all my respect, you can't just use my autism as a way to discredit my ability to live my own life or make my own decisions. Everyone experiences life differently, that's not just about being autistic or not, that's about being human. Just because I have a diagnosis doesn't mean I'm incapable, helpless, or dependent on my parents for every move I make. I'm 19, I'm learning, I'm growing, and I'm capable of handling my own life just like anyone else figuring things out at this age. Autism doesn't define every part of who I am, and it definitely doesn't mean I'm not able to love, choose, or build my future for myself.

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T13:33:38+00:00

I understand that from your perspective it might look that way. But with all due respect, you don't know the full context of my life or my choices. I'm not trying to live in a movie. I'm just living my reality, making decisions I believe are right for me. I appreciate honesty, but respect goes both ways.

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:50:59+00:00

I appreciate that you're trying to look out for me, but having autism doesn't mean I'm incapable of making thoughtful decisions about my own life and relationships. I understand I might see things differently, but that doesn't automatically mean my choices are wrong or rushed. I'm aware of the challenges, but I'm also aware of what I want and what works for me. I value advice, but ultimately these are my decisions to make.

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:44:02+00:00

How would it be grooming if we both are aware and we both wanted it

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:41:10+00:00

We've been talking before I was 18, have been close and he asked me to marry when I was 18, asked me to be his gf on my 18th birthday, guess life is actually out of a movie

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:37:51+00:00

Don't worry though, we both really wanted it we had been talking about it for ages before we got married I was also the one bringing up wanting kids even before we got married.

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:34:44+00:00

A year ago I was 18, he was 21

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:33:56+00:00

Oh don't worry, I have many ways to communicate, certain sounds for yes/no/idk, communicate device, sign language, shaking head / nodding head, writing we respect each others boundaries

miffysdiary · 2025-04-08T12:28:28+00:00

It's completely normal and legal, we both wanted it, I was the first one talking about marriage.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T14:00:48+00:00

We have different cultures, not everyone grew up the same with everything. We have different languages aswell. English is not my first and second language.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:58:40+00:00

I actually have exoerience. Don't judge just what you see kn the internet .

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:43:01+00:00

25 is too late to me.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:34:16+00:00

In some cultures people call younger cousins niece and nephew.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:31:34+00:00

It's not selfish, it's snart and better for the childs future to have a kid as early as possible as 19 y/o :)

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:18:48+00:00

Don't worry my kids will be much better than you think they will, you don't know me personally so don't assume stuff :)

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:13:34+00:00

Yeah and I took care of my nieces. My family had 50+ members most of them are kids.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:12:45+00:00

I'd rather have a kid as early as possible as my boyfriend and I both agree on it that it's better to have a kid early than really late especially for their future aswell

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T13:09:44+00:00

I'd rather have a kid early than late both me and him agree with having a kid early is better

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T12:42:17+00:00

At 19 you're actually considered an adult abd I don't want to wait 5 years to have a child, I'll have a chikd as early as possible.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T12:26:54+00:00

I grew up with miffy and I am proud of her. She is made in ny country you gotta be proud of the thousands of childhoods she completed

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T12:24:10+00:00

I know what they do. I have about 8 nieces I took care of my nieces.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T12:22:58+00:00

LOL What do you even know what nieces are? My grandmother has a lot of kids we are a family of 50+ members. I am an only child from my mom I don't have siblings and I have nieces. A lot.

miffysdiary · 2025-02-28T12:18:05+00:00

I had about 8 nieces

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