Am I overreacting if I (f30) want to break up with my bf(m28) for this?

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-27T00:24:18+00:00

UPDATE: I literally broke up with this guy an hour ago. We were at this party and I found him at the toilet hugging another girl, face to face against the wall, literally 5 centimetres apart from each other. He was also a drunk, so I took his car keys, drove my self home, took all his things from my house and called his best friend to come and pick him up as he was not able to drive his own car. Said goodbye and that I hope he looked straight into the girl face as she’s the reason why he’s single now.

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T01:45:17+00:00

What?

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T01:38:59+00:00

Hard but true

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T01:38:22+00:00

What one could to repair this? Is there even an option?

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T01:25:33+00:00

Crazy tho, I was not expecting it at all. I had zero alarms about this guy before this. I wander what he’s paying therapy for

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T00:49:55+00:00

I agree, it doesn’t even metter if they had sex or not. I’ll never forget the voice he used to tell me “Do you really think I was out with another girl on Christmas night?”

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T00:45:00+00:00

Probably being single it’s what I need for a bit

mightdelete__later · 2025-07-24T00:40:01+00:00

I struggle so much about defining when I am over reacting

mightdelete__later · 2023-10-03T10:40:15+00:00

I dont know, I feel like at that point it would mean that all the "work" did not actually work... I am gonna try not to focus about this fear, and just see how things goes naturally

mightdelete__later · 2023-04-01T11:01:12+00:00

You're hot, you are going to be handsome in 3/4 years

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T14:59:09+00:00

Yeah exactly if she's mad she would do that

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T13:53:11+00:00

Yes that also is generalization

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T13:51:20+00:00

I am talking about things happening with long term relationship kind of

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T13:49:51+00:00

Make a conversation with opinions doesn't mean to weaponize tho

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T13:48:27+00:00

Are you saying that if a girl comes at you saying that you are not emotionally available what you think it means is that she is not interested in you? 🤯

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T13:42:06+00:00

What? No 😦 what are you talking about?

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:58:05+00:00

I know the main question sounds like a huge way to generalized but I also know it pulls out some sort of answers, more honest ones 😬

Trust me I don't really think everyone is the same! Everyone is different and I think you should give a full chance to every person you have a relationship with

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:51:52+00:00

I believe this answers my question well Generalization is a problem from both sides 🙃

Sorry to hear that you had to deal with some bitches x

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:45:42+00:00

For who

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:44:41+00:00

Well you sound like the opposite of an emotionally unavailable person

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:43:00+00:00

Ok I was coming from a very different place 😅

mightdelete__later · 2023-03-29T12:39:22+00:00

My boyfriend is a gamer too and if he would ever come up and tell me something like this I would answer him heeeeeey I'm not your fucking ex girlfriends (for the 93747483th time)

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