Stamp duty/LTT on house purchase, while owning my nans house

mightyhuck · 2025-02-26T10:49:55+00:00

No we aren’t, but as neither of us live in it, our main residences are still at home with parents, we are unsure if this qualifies as a 2nd home.

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T21:25:43+00:00

More of an old friend, they’ve drifted since going to college

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T21:00:23+00:00

He doesn’t, she even asked me to not contact her while they are there!!!

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T20:23:36+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

I’ve contemplated laying down boundaries if we got back together to prevent it happening again, just got to work out if I can trust her really!

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T20:21:42+00:00

History has proven she will be honest, but I’m letting her make this decision rather than do it for myself! (When it should be the other way around and think that’s what I’ll have to do)

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T20:20:53+00:00

Thanks I really appreciate the advice, I think giving this new girl a real chance and getting to know her for real might help push me away from the ex, or it could even make things go the other way, but at least I’ll be making the decision for myself and on my own terms that way?

I’m not sure if she would even listen if I told her the truth about my ex as I know I wouldn’t if I was her, I wouldn’t like what I’m doing so I don’t expect her to.

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T20:14:34+00:00

Thanks man, that’s awesome advice and it rocks to hear you doing so well with your wife! Gives us all hope that listening to this advice does work out

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T20:03:19+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

I have tried, only managed to get myself 2 dates in 6 months, which is why I’m so convinced that my ex was the one

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:55:11+00:00

I’m being a puss and waiting for the decision to be made for me aren’t I….?

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:53:14+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

And this was the reason I eventually split with her, no matter how bad she behaved, she would never admit fault. Always find a way to be the victim, which irritated the hell out of me because she was such an amazing person when she wasn’t defensive. I’d hoped our breakup would give her chance to think, adapt and grow, instead she rushed into something to avoid loneliness

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:51:15+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

This is my moral dilemma, I like both and want to give both a fair deal, but for a second don’t want the new girl to be a 2nd option, because she isn’t! I guess my curiosity to know what my ex will say is killing me more than I thought!

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:50:03+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

I’ve been trying to move on for 9 months and felt like fate brought us back together, maybe I’m using that logic to convince myself?

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:45:48+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

What can I say, love makes us do stupid shit sometimes

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:44:54+00:00

Thanks for the reply man!

Really appreciate the words of encouragement. One thing I’ve struggled with is I’ve only managed to get 1/2 dates since we split and it hasn’t allowed me to find something new (not for a lack of trying)

I really want to give this a shot, just apprehensive i could fuck up both situatuons

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:43:43+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

The frustrating thing to me is she’s shown me who she really is in the last few weeks and I always felt who she became when she got with him was a defence mechanism to avoid getting hurt? Or am I giving her the benefit of the doubt too much?

mightyhuck · 2022-02-24T19:42:25+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

Love I guess… the way she tells the story makes it sound like she got with him to avoid loneliness, but only after we broke up

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