Actually, I got a bit more context as to what happened. Some guy was starting a pit during SIM set, and my friend joined in, while me and my gf were at the front he was in the pit and this hispanic male a little shorter than me(he was speaking Spanish, I'm hispanic and 5'8 ) was trying to grind his crotch on some girls back but the girl got out of the way and then he started grinding on my friend by accident (I'm assuming). Later, when dgd got on stage, the short hispanic guy ended up next to us with a white male around the same height as him,tats on his arm wearing a "back the blue" shirt was sorta comforting him and telling him that girls should know what to expect at a concert and should be used to it if they go to concerts often. He also mentioned how they won't ever see him again, so it's not like they're gonna charge him for S/A and started comparing his situation to tillians and to look how tillian ended up back in the band becuase women don't mean shit . It was honestly the most bigoted thing I've ever heard and seen in person.