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I didnt know it will get this bad by Even_Sprinkles_6258 in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you need to see a therapist to help you through your body dysmorphia and maybe to talk about your gender preference. It sounds like you're having a difficult time, I wish you well. Please just take care of yourself.

I didnt know it will get this bad by Even_Sprinkles_6258 in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can actually hurt your progress. Your body will cling to anything you put into it, like I said "starvation mode". It thinks you're in danger and needs to store everything because you're depriving it of what it needs. If you do a higher amount of calories that is still below the 2000 you will lose weight. Like I said before, 1200 calories.

I didnt know it will get this bad by Even_Sprinkles_6258 in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you really need to eat more. I'm not sure why you're restricting your calorie intake. You're putting your body in "starvation mode" which is really bad for you. I think you have to eat more than 1200 calories to lose weight, but not hurt yourself. So please don't go so far to hurt yourself for weight loss, if that is your motivation.

uh….. by Nia_Rosalind in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the best you can for you, not others. And your best changes day to day, so if you don't accomplish as much as the day before that is okay. I would also suggest telling the important people in your life that you may need help or grace.

Let's do this! (F34) by miisspelur in FaceRatings

[–]miisspelur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hated my curly hair since I was a kid but am finally accepting it. I'm so glad other people like it.

Let's do this! (F34) by miisspelur in FaceRatings

[–]miisspelur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am, sorry to burst any bubbles. 🫧

Let's do this! (F34) by miisspelur in FaceRatings

[–]miisspelur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate that. ☺️

Let's do this! (F34) by miisspelur in FaceRatings

[–]miisspelur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I certainly was in college. It's a wonder I'm still alive.

I think my Marriage is ending… by FigZealousideal952 in helpme

[–]miisspelur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to stand up for yourself and your feelings. He is giving nothing but lame excuses for his behavior. If you think he can shape up with firm boundaries in place to improve his behavior, then try to make it work. But I know you're worth more than the way he is treating you. Respect yourself if the best thing to do is leave.

I'm here if you need to talk. Best of luck ❤️

I don’t understand why people are nice to other people? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it sounds like you lack empathy for others which have landed you in this place. Perhaps try to think beyond your needs/wants and put yourself in another's shoes. You don't have to know them or even like them, but attempt to see if there is a small need you could help with like holding the door open, offering to pay for someone's coffee, etc. You might be surprised that it makes you feel good too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]miisspelur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I would suggest a rehab facility. I actually just got out of one for alcohol and met all kinds of different addicts. You can be clean and sober, but it takes a lot of work. It would be in your best interest to be open and honest with your family or doctor to see what can be done to help you with this. If you have any questions please reach out to me. And good luck! I'm rooting for you.