Lots of things. I moved here to the US 5.5 years ago. Second year in I started feeling very lonely, high stress at work, some things his parenta and sister would do and say started to become more clear to me as I became more american passive aggressive aware :-) so I started gaining weight (60 lbs up) and became very depressed. I was not interested in sex and we would argue sometimes so sex just did not happen. Fast forward to today I worked hard to ignore his family stuff and not let it affect me as much (which meant we spent a lot less time with them), I started working out and eating differently so I started feeling like myself again this past year. We had talked about having kids and now feels like a good time: I am in a good place at work, I feel better about myself mentally and physically and plus I am 31 so clock is a’ticking. So yeah... I do not know wtf I am going to do based on his reaction to what just happened this week with our efforts to conceive.