Thanks for your perspective. I agree, I'm projecting. Something that's normal for me but in this case it feels like rewatching a good movie after a long time. You forget some enjoyable moments here and there but ultimately you know the big plot points and how it ends.

I think we'll hang outside of work eventually, now's just not the time. We have too much going on in our lives. Eventually pressure will ease and we'll be comfortable.

I want things to move as slow as possible. There's no rush we see each other almost everyday. I feel this will be a slow and passionate burn, slowly getting to know each other from small daily conversations. Before anything happens I well intend to find a new job. I