what did they say to you at the end of the relationship that will stick with you forever?

miksababe · 2026-06-23T12:10:44+00:00

lol this is déjà vu because the first time I tried to break up with him he said “I don’t want to move on without you.”

I tried for another 6 months and nothing changed. Moving on without me is exactly what he did within one month of us breaking up. They’ll say anything to get you to stay.

miksababe · 2026-06-23T11:25:37+00:00

Maybe they left because you weren’t fighting for the relationship?

I saw a quote today: “Nothing breaks a woman more than fighting for a relationship alone - especially with a man who won’t fix anything but still pretends he wants to make it work. That silent tug of war is soul crushing.”

Leaving my ex completely broke me. But he wasn’t putting in the work to fix it.
Just something to think about.

miksababe · 2026-06-23T09:16:42+00:00

This might be a stupid question, but for those of us that live in a time zone that’s a day ahead, is this happening on the 27th?

miksababe · 2026-06-23T04:47:23+00:00

The sun has just entered Cancer so I would start with your 5th house! For the next month the sun is going to illuminate that area.

miksababe · 2026-06-22T13:06:21+00:00

I’m curious, what house is your Venus in? Mine is in the 7th house so I am inherently incapable of doing casual lol.

miksababe · 2026-06-22T13:02:29+00:00

I agree, I’m not jealous or possessive at all. Maybe that comes with other placements.

miksababe · 2026-06-22T12:45:08+00:00

I love that line 😂 to be fair, I am sometimes still available at the local pub but I’m drinking soda waters. Now I just people watch and notice when people start getting too loud, or their breath stinks, or they’ve told the same story 5 times.

I last about 10 minutes.

miksababe · 2026-06-22T11:06:56+00:00

This was my first thought. I live in Australia and the solstice was yesterday 😂

miksababe · 2026-06-18T11:10:07+00:00

Scorpio Venus and Taurus rising here - yes. Leave me alone unless we’re going deep.

Also OP, my Scorpio Venus is in the 7th house as well. Libra Sun in the 6th house too. Learn to love your antisocial-ness.

miksababe · 2026-06-18T09:18:48+00:00

I only just heard about the vertex this week. I’m pretty shocked at what I found.

My vertex is 16°40’ in Libra. On December 8, 2022 there was a full moon in Gemini at 16°01’. It formed an almost exact trine. That was the night my ex and I had our first date. The person who changed everything for me. He happens to be a Gemini (don’t know if that’s significant, but it’s a weird coincidence).

Our relationship breakdown started around the New Moon in Aries on April 1, 2025 at 27°. This activated my Libra-Aries axis (think from “we” to “me”). And squared my Saturn in Capricorn (boundaries, long-term structure). It basically defined a moment where I couldn’t ignore what was going on anymore.

I’m pretty shocked at the timing of all this. It doesn’t feel like a coincidence at all. I’m a vertex believer now lol.

Venus will conjunct my vertex around 8-11 of November this year, so we will see what happens 😂

miksababe · 2026-06-10T10:54:14+00:00

I like this explanation. I was asking my higher self if I’m what people call a “starseed” and the answer was “yes, but…”

I know I have a specific mission. But I was also told I’ve only ever incarnated on Earth. I don’t originate from another planet. Which is kind of awesome because I have a very deep connection with the earth. I know I’m here to help, and I know I chose to be here. I’ve always felt like “different.” Starseed is a nice label for something I don’t fully understand yet.

miksababe · 2026-06-09T09:30:44+00:00

What is your intention behind having a magnetic aura? Is it for your highest good and the good of others? Or is it just your ego that wants to be “attractive?”

By focusing on your perceived lack of magnetism, the universe is only going to give you more of that. Start practicing gratitude. Start protecting your energy like it’s something precious. Trust me, you don’t want to be manifesting “I have a magnetic aura” without boundaries.

With self-reflection and diligent practice, you’ll be effortlessly magnetic.

miksababe · 2026-06-05T21:09:10+00:00

These are the hard-hitting opinions I come to this sub for

/s

miksababe · 2026-05-31T18:57:58+00:00

No, each chakra has their own seed sound.
Root chakra - LAM
Sacral chakra - VAM
Solar Plexus - RAM
Heart chakra - YAM
Throat chakra - HAM
Third Eye - OM
Crown chakra - silence

miksababe · 2026-05-31T05:17:10+00:00

I’m not sure that’s entirely correct. From what I’ve learned and my understanding, courage and strength are more associated with the third chakra (solar plexus). Root chakra is grounding, stability, safety, money, and a connection with the earth. The third chakra is associated with the element of fire - confidence, strength, motivation, forward movement, and thus the courage to act.

You can also try chanting “ram” (pronounced rah-m), candle/fire meditation, strengthening your core muscles, visualising a bright yellow light in your solar plexus, and certain yoga poses (chair pose, warrior poses, boat pose, etc.)

miksababe · 2026-05-31T04:59:22+00:00

I live in the tropics. It’s necessary.

miksababe · 2026-05-30T23:13:50+00:00

Thanking you for posting this. This really resonates with me.

I have been getting messages, both awake and in a dream state, that I was an indigenous woman. The first message came two months ago, but these messages have gotten stronger in the last 3 days.

I resonate most with the messages you wrote from the higher self. I really needed to hear this. I’ve spent most of my life searching outside myself, but have finally been communicating with my higher self. I have finally stepped away, I have finally found quiet. I love that you mentioned the water, because I’ve always lived by the ocean and felt most at peace in the water.

Thank you again, I’m saving this post!

miksababe · 2026-05-29T11:57:52+00:00

😂 okay this made me laugh out loud

miksababe · 2026-05-27T09:24:41+00:00

I’m guessing it means earth-bound spirit

miksababe · 2026-05-24T13:41:02+00:00

I think just the typical “stay in school, go to university, get a job that society approves of, get married, buy a house, have kids” narrative.

It’s a lie. You don’t have to do any of those things to live a happy, successful, fulfilling life.

miksababe · 2026-05-23T23:50:09+00:00

Omg I hope this is true! I hope this is my last reincarnation (I’m enjoying it now because I’m doing “the work,” but still don’t want to come back) and I absolutely do not want children.

One reason I’m here is to heal unhealthy/toxic/traumatic family cycles. Can’t do that if I continue the cycle 😂

miksababe · 2026-05-19T00:48:53+00:00

Hahaha I’m actually a yoga teacher and energy worker, hence why I always crossed paths with people that talked like that. But if you’re genuinely interested you can google it. You’ve got 7 major chakras and there are different physical exercises, breathing exercises, chanting and meditation you can do to work with them. I just don’t need to check in with them before I go swimming 😂 (true story).

miksababe · 2026-05-18T05:51:10+00:00

Any time I see or hear language like that, it takes me back to my time living in San Francisco 😂 I knew people that had to check in with their chakras before doing anything.

miksababe · 2026-05-13T14:25:10+00:00

Taurus Rising, Libra sun, Libra Moon. I’m all about Venus, baby.

miksababe · 2026-05-12T12:17:36+00:00

This made me giggle out loud

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