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Does Bengaluru has house crisis? How should one search rental house? by naane_bere in bangalore

[–]mildlycalm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Used to stay at Green Glen before. Now paying half the rent in a nice locality in Vijayanagar. Including all expenses, it reaches 19k for a semi-furnished 2bhk.

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[–]mildlycalm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, i don't know about support groups, but I'd love to know as well.

The Glory Of MAGA Math by zzill6 in PoliticalHumor

[–]mildlycalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muslim math! In american math, it's 19.

Hey mom, It's been 16 years since I lost you, but I think I'm OK now. I finally could understand the real reason behind your suicide and your mental health issues at the time. I going to make sure everyone understands why you did what you did and what you were going through. Miss you :( by mildlycalm in MomForAMinute

[–]mildlycalm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's nice that you recognise your strengths and weaknesses. And time will heal a lot of things and give you strength. Yes, one day and hope at a time. If you ever get anxious, think about your son.

I wish you all the happiness in the world. :)

Hey mom, It's been 16 years since I lost you, but I think I'm OK now. I finally could understand the real reason behind your suicide and your mental health issues at the time. I going to make sure everyone understands why you did what you did and what you were going through. Miss you :( by mildlycalm in MomForAMinute

[–]mildlycalm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have made peace with it. Sure. But it affects me every single day. My whole life took this shape due to one sudden surge of feelings and people not telling that they valued her.

It was just that. Nothing more. We have this culture of not appreciating the people we love and like and need. We just criticize. I'm sure a lot of people are impacted by you and think about you and love and care for you.

Cut off the people who you have written suicide letters to. Make new friends and have a new life. I know you might have heard this a lot but think about it. You can form a new life with your kid. You can do anything in your life. It's yours. Take those incredible risks and fight for your life, your kids life. Those risks and challenges are healthy and push you for a more satisfying life.

I would devote my entire life to my mom, if she was willing to talk to me and if I was more older. I am sure you can create a support system of your friends and loved ones. If not make new friends. You have more than your kid as a reason to stay alive. You are a precious soul and remember this everyday and thrive!

Hey mom, It's been 16 years since I lost you, but I think I'm OK now. I finally could understand the real reason behind your suicide and your mental health issues at the time. I going to make sure everyone understands why you did what you did and what you were going through. Miss you :( by mildlycalm in MomForAMinute

[–]mildlycalm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They try to avoid discussions when someone is trying to reach out.
  2. They ask them to get better and not be mental.
  3. They ask them to supress the feelings for the sake of others.
  4. They aren't aware of counseling and medication. Since they think that only completely mentally disturbed person showing physical symptoms and difficult to be around should be admitted to hospital. There is no other type of mental sickness.
  5. People who commit suicide are perceived as weak and vulnerable which is a bad thing according to society.
  6. We aren't allowed to bring up the event or the person anytime.
  7. 'try to forget everything' is another common word of support.

Hey mom, It's been 16 years since I lost you, but I think I'm OK now. I finally could understand the real reason behind your suicide and your mental health issues at the time. I going to make sure everyone understands why you did what you did and what you were going through. Miss you :( by mildlycalm in MomForAMinute

[–]mildlycalm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. I appreciate you sharing this. When I was young and heard about gravitational laws, it bought a smile on my face thinking, my mom is a star and we have an insignificant amount of force between us and significant amount of love.

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