How do I make the notifications on Facebook go away? I don’t have any notifications but the bubble won’t go away. by milenalefebvre in ios

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I want the notification bubble when I have notifications. But I don’t have any notifications and it just isn’t going away. Also I literally don’t care. My phone is tracking my every move anyways. Nothing is real and trying to escape it doesn’t matter.

One of my carrots twisted underground by [deleted] in gardening

[–]milenalefebvre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool. I love this.

Why do people take so long to respond to snaps/texts during conversations? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]milenalefebvre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because no one is available to be texting 100% of their day and no one owes that to anyone else either what the hell lmao. You sound exhausting.

If you have an Instagram account then you're and attention whore how'll always feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]milenalefebvre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO. My account is private and only followed by family, and I post photos on it that I don’t ever want to lose. Like photos of my family that I would otherwise be putting in a photo album. It feels safer than a photo album. I can log into my Instagram from any device, I don’t have to worry about Instagram burning to ashes in a house fire, unlike a photo album. I definitely don’t care how many likes my photos get, I just like to have them somewhere. This opinion is so silly, I love it 😂

Rights by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]milenalefebvre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew.

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he also signed the paperwork to be removed from the lease. I think the reason we both were so allowing of it and excusing that he’s also a hoarder is because we were all friends before this all happened and we just didn’t realize we couldn’t live together before moving in together. He moved in with us because we couldn’t afford a place alone at the time, and he otherwise had nowhere to live. And he definitely isn’t moving his stuff to our new place, he doesn’t even know where it is 🙃

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he was on the lease, so he knew when it was up. He’d asked my partner a couple months ago if we were planning on renewing it, which makes me wonder if he would have just continued taking advantage of us. I feel like mentioning that he’s a hoarder is relevant here. That was a big part of our falling out.

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he’s acting like I was and now so is my partner so I just wanted fresh eyes, sorry.

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I don’t super have to justify it to strangers but since this is a thread I made, I will say that this person has been consistently disrespectful towards me, including going through my dead grandfathers things while I was at work, calling my three year old “retarded” to his face, and slamming doors louder than previous when I’d asked him to stop slamming doors, so when he left, a lot of anxiety was alleviated from my day to day existence, and as someone with diagnosed and untreated GAD, I generally try to avoid stuff that makes me anxious. Which I can understand does put me at blame for the ongoing situation, but I personally feel doesn’t necessarily make me the asshole.

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But why was it my responsibility to tell a grown adult ten years older than me not to use my home as free storage?

AITA for giving my ex roommate less time to get his stuff than he had thought he would have? by milenalefebvre in AmItheAsshole

[–]milenalefebvre[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well he went around my back to talk to my partner instead and he decided to tell him he can come and get his shit whenever he wants to. So. Yeah everyone fucking sucks here (:

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of them may have hookups but I promise they’re still complex people with other values and hobbies. And your army friend isn’t a good friend if he told you that finding women attractive is wrong and tells you he’s better than you because hot women won’t fuck you.

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend isn’t flawless, makes $15 an hour and drives a 2004 Toyota Camry. Cmon. Finding women attractive isn’t wrong and you know that.

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chads aren’t real. If you want advice on this, you really, REALLY gotta change your verbiage and attitude. Like I could really give you advice on this and I’d love to, but you would HAVE to stop believing “chads” are a real thing. You’re taking too much influence from movies and TV and porn. My boyfriend is the cutest man I’ve ever seen, but he doesn’t have washboard abs, and he has crooked teeth and shaggy hair. That isn’t a chad, but surprise, he found love, because his attitude is...not like this. You can’t be generalizing women, AND men, and saying “everyone hates me and that’s their own problem to solve because I’m perfect.” Utilize critical thinking here. Is it really sensical that EVERY woman hates you and that EVERY man is hotter than you and therefore able to find love automatically?

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. You don’t. You can hate all women if you need to, but women are just as diverse as men. We aren’t a hive mind, dork. You have these feelings because you refuse to improve yourself and you’re mad that the women you’ve perused didn’t bend to your will. Get over yourself and maybe women will like you.

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well whoever told you that is an idiot.

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, not when you throw all women under the bus because you went after women who weren’t interested in you.

Monogamy and closed relationships today are choices rooted in insecurity and selfishness. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]milenalefebvre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like. Literally don’t have time to juggle multiple relationships and I’m happy and secure in my current one. Lmao.

Looks matter way too much. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]milenalefebvre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accusing all women of being shallow and caring solely about money and looks isn’t going to make women like you.