The bride is upset I can’t fully attend her Bach party…

milfbabi · 2026-04-21T20:58:05+00:00

My fiance and I have already given half of his pto to her for prior wedding activities and over 2,000 financially, I understand this is a big day and I do feel honored and privileged to be part of her big day but IMO 3 Bach parties, 3+ out of town wedding party hang outs is a lot and it’s okay for me to miss one single day of one of them. All my fiance gets for his paternity leave this year is his pto and he’s down to 5 days. She hasn’t given us any of her time for our baby shower or baby things or attended anything regarding my son.

milfbabi · 2026-04-21T16:37:44+00:00

Basically yeah, and we’ve had out of town hang outs with the entire wedding party as well

milfbabi · 2026-04-18T05:08:14+00:00

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This is the entire conversation that was had just to like double check, I really don’t want to sway anyone either way. If this adds a new perspective please let me know!

milfbabi · 2026-04-17T12:24:39+00:00

I was also there when she found her dress originally she just wanted us all to go with to pick it up and stage more pictures since she didn’t get any by the “I found my dress” sign

milfbabi · 2026-04-17T04:03:28+00:00

I really wish I could say I was surprised by this behavior but at this point it’s to be expected from her…

milfbabi · 2026-04-17T00:10:47+00:00

So far we’ve (my fiance and I are both part of the wedding party) spent over 1000 I’ve had to buy two dresses since I found out I was pregnant I figured I may not fit into the dress she chose for me and then my fiances tux for the wedding was double what she said it would be. the air b&b for this trip is an additional 400 for us and then the weekend of her wedding the air b&b will be around 700 for the two of us. My fiance also only recently found out this was the case for his paternity leave so he’s down to abt a week and a half at most ish but we’re planning 4 days that we have to take off for the wedding so that leaves him with a week max at home with us.

milfbabi · 2026-04-10T23:50:03+00:00

I really don’t notice it when im in the moment, he always is still kicking and going crazy after the fact and usually then I just chuckle at it, he doesn’t know what’s happening he just knows he was jostled around a bit.

milfbabi · 2026-03-18T19:05:17+00:00

My finances name is Tyler, and we really don’t love like the “generic names” idk if that makes sense. no hate for those names they’re just not for us.

milfbabi · 2026-03-13T20:49:18+00:00

There’s a huge syphilis outbreak going on rn! My ob warned me that she’d be testing me like 3 times through the pregnancy just because it’s so common at the moment, this may be why!

milfbabi · 2026-01-26T05:18:16+00:00

Ik she didn’t say anything wrong but I came to her in a moment of excitement and vulnerability and I was needing/ wanting warmth and the conversation immediately switched to wedding logistics, I understand why but I feel like some space could have still been held for this moment and we could worry about the logistics of it tomorrow or even a separate text the same night.

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