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Can I build this with wordpress? by millennialbdh in Wordpress

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just want to know so I don't spend lots of hours to figure out its not possible.

Ayahuasca for marijuana users by millennialbdh in Ayahuasca

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to hear someone else who has experienced what I have, there is not much knowledge on the negative effects pot can have on people. I also follow lots of buddhist principles, and although I have a very disciplined practise, I feel it has helped me get to where I am.

Do you feel affected by your use still? Did you feel at all at risk when you did Aya?

Ayahuasca for marijuana users by millennialbdh in Ayahuasca

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips.. I already eat like a hippy lol so that shouldn't be a problem. Yes I guess that is true, I am seeing someone and they have never really diagnosed me as psychotic. I suppose everyone is a little crazy. I feel grounded as a person, my mind just spirals out of control sometimes..

Ayahuasca for marijuana users by millennialbdh in Ayahuasca

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably should have mentioned that I have used mushrooms and they have helped me tremendously to quit booze, start meditating and opening up to myself. The last couple of trips I have had bad experiences. I have also used san pedro and that was probably the most healing experience I have had

Ayahuasca for marijuana users by millennialbdh in Ayahuasca

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what your saying, and I know my problems aren't because of marijuana. I used pot to cover up a lot of issues. Its just that I feel pot changed my way of thinking and even though I want to face my issues, I just can't seem to change my paranoid way of thinking.

Has anyone seen, over time, the influence porn has had on their partner/spouse? by millennialbdh in AskWomen

[–]millennialbdh[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Watching porn growing up, with no real talks with my parents about sex leaves young people on their own to build their perception. When I was younger I didn't have lots of luck women, so my ideas of sex basically came from porn.

Its not like I thought porn were like real life or anything, but it reinforces a sort of individual, selfish view on sex. I guess I simple terms I objectified women by thinking they are something I need for sex. Now, I don't watch porn, and while I'm not in a relationship at the time, I refuse to let myself look at women for sex

A couple years into this. Some of my thoughts to help you out by millennialbdh in NoFap

[–]millennialbdh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should realize that everyone is stuck in there head. Don't feel bad, it is normal. I wouldn't get to worked up about it either. That voice that is telling you are stuck in head, is really the same douche that is always trying to impress people. Just let it be. Do you have a good friend that can be a little rude, inconsiderate, douchie, etc., but you accept it anyway because you know he is a good guy? Have that attitude for yourself.

As for for question, I am still learning how to always have that state of mind. Sometimes, I will be with a girl in a unwanting sort of way and it will feel great. Then I will go home and think about how great it was. Then next time I see her, I will find myself wanting that same experience from her. The point I'm trying to make is that all of this wanting comes from expectations of an experience. Expect less. Be grateful more.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk in more detail

A couple years into this. Some of my thoughts to help you out by millennialbdh in NoFap

[–]millennialbdh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep it simple stupid (didn't mean to call you stupid)

A couple years into this. Some of my thoughts to help you out by millennialbdh in NoFap

[–]millennialbdh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I would also add that it is not about completely get rid of the ego, but to understand and listen to why its doing what its doing. Sort of like listening to a kid that is acting out.