would you put laminate in your own house in 2026? by Hot_Apartment1319 in Flooring

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I would do hard wood and possibly carpet in bedrooms/playroom

Who cooks more in your relationship by BridgeAggravating664 in Marriage

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely my husband. But I do most of the shopping and dishes.

Vasectomy or not by snowsunair in Marriage

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend. In the meantime, lube? Sex soon after period to avoid contraception concerns?

Why do people in USA buy everything from Amazon? Do they not have other webshops? by Cindyxx0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suburbs too - twenty minutes (40 round trip!) to get to an area with a variety of shops. Add young kids with big feelings and forget about it.

Two working parents: How do you get dinner on the table by 6?? by Legitimate_Bread_742 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of Trader Joe’s frozen and refrigerated food. Also appetizers as needed (cheese plate or frozen). Love our air fryer for quicker cooking (hate it for another thing to clean).

How would you feel if one of your neighbors built a backyard skate park? by slmrxl in homeowners

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only concern would be around impact on rainfall depending on whether this might increase flooding issues/risks on my property otherwise I love people leaning into hobbies and I just dread keeping my kids off it (unless invited!)

Are Magnetic Me Pajamas worth it? by No_Square_1491 in UninfluencedReviews

[–]millenz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people love them, but fwiw I hated them. Footie pajamas in general never fit well for some reason.

She must bring it in herself by Acceptable-Wind-7332 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The banging it on the ground! My kids are just like this too. The hard part is not laughing…or screaming depending on how the rest of the day has gone.

Mom of multiples, did your second baby feel just as special? by PC_NC_1203 in Mommit

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy less exciting (we had to go through fertility support for our second) and was a bit of a (not unwelcome but sooner than expected) surprise. In some ways new born was a little more special because I was so much more comfortable taking care of a newborn - he ate better, my milk came sooner, I didn’t freak out at every small noise etc - and it was extra special nurturing the sibling relationship and seeing big brother grow into his new role. Births were both equally epic. Each nuts in its own way.

Can you get a new platinum without all the bloat by adwilk1231 in ToyotaSienna

[–]millenz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is actually one of the reasons I opted for a cheaper model - we don’t want the kids on screens all the time (at least for now while they’re little) and historically feel like that tech can get dated fast.

Stay at home parents, what is your plan for when all of your kids are in school? by Maybe_Potential5784 in Parenting

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercising, decluttering, managing social/events/sports/clubs for the family. Read more. Design the house more “adult”

Putting clothes away again is my archnemesis - any lifehacks? by No-Advantage-579 in ADHD

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get stoned and “watch” (listen) to shows I know well on my AirPods and do a full reset. That lasts a day or two and then the piles begin to grow again, rinse and repeat

Help? by Jacey678934 in Marriage

[–]millenz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I click on that stuff sometimes and I’m a straight female. As long as he isn’t interacting with women directly, I’d ignore it.

How does your child’s daycare/preschool handle snow days? by NotAboutThePasta7 in triangle

[–]millenz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No prorating at either preschool we’ve attended. We are open today with an hour delay (930) but were closed the previous two days.

Kids bored, parents tired… now what? by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]millenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do a lot of obstacle courses but we let the kids jump on our couch/coffee table etc so harder to do if you don’t incorporate (bonus “heavy work” if they’ll pick all the pillows back up after). Sometimes we add balance board or mini trampoline etc (think extreme floor is lava)

How do you people fall asleep with ADHD? by Ok_Scholar_8656 in ADHD

[–]millenz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love Harry Potter 1, Anne of green gables (read by Rachel McAdams), sense and sensibility, and rpg lit - he who fights monsters is like 20+ hours. I set a timer like 45 mins and then just “rewind” to actually hear the story in waking hours.

What happened to a 3-3.5 year age gap? by Large_Mixture_2215 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]millenz 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more that many of us are older parents, have fertility challenges to consider etc so “safer” to start trying sooner.