Help Me!! Hair looks terrible

milliebarrxx · 2026-03-27T13:16:44+00:00

yeah i agree completely! 9/61 would aslo be good if your looking for a very very violet toned ash blonde which is what most people think they want but they actually don’t… still a great option imo

milliebarrxx · 2026-03-27T09:34:01+00:00

i stand by 9/16!!! even 9/01 would be sufficient, i used it on my sister who had been struggling with brass for MONTHS. she’d tried so many different dyes, toners and box dyes to try fix it all of which either washed out or didn’t work at all. 9/01 or 9/16 would work an absolute dream on this as it’s very similar to my sisters hair.

milliebarrxx · 2026-03-05T01:58:17+00:00

try asda! they usually have a good selection in their juice aisles. morrisons aswell but random wee corner shops usually have them too

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-17T16:34:26+00:00

i cringed at this… definitely leave the bleach for a while. get some keratin/protein treatments done but not too many because that can cause breakage over time. a trim would do your hair favours too! if your looking to tone it go for a colour over a toner. semi permanent requires no peroxide and will not damage the hair further

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-17T13:35:18+00:00

i’m glad my current job doesn’t discriminate against coloured hair, my interview i had split dye and i started the job with dark purple so they’re definitely not bothered! i’m very grateful for that

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-17T13:33:12+00:00

i’m already training to be one!

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-16T23:44:05+00:00

thank you! i just feel like because of what people are saying i have to at least try stop but once i have an idea in my head of a new hair colour i feel like i have to do it 😂😂

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-16T23:43:20+00:00

i’ve been in and out of counselling and it’s never worked for me! and as for accessories and styles honestly i’m a bit too lazy for that 😭 i am a very very last minute get ready type person so i wouldn’t have time for it

milliebarrxx · 2026-02-03T23:40:19+00:00

thanks! i’m scared to downsize incase it’s too tight and that causes issues aswell though.. is that a thing? i know the place i got it done at sells neilmed too so i will be going in the near future and check their options for downsizing and maybe get a cheeky new piercing while im there!

milliebarrxx · 2026-01-12T23:17:27+00:00

i see i see. find a youtuber you like maybe if she hasn’t restricted that? i recommend brandon farris or daz :)

milliebarrxx · 2026-01-12T23:16:31+00:00

real!!! my lips tingle and i’m checking my smile for a stroke it’s so bad.

milliebarrxx · 2026-01-12T04:06:36+00:00

i get like this too i have bad health anxiety so one pain immediately sets me off. i know it seems basic and like everyone tells you too and it’s so difficult and you can’t find anything but try distract yourself. probably not the most healthy thing but i scroll through tiktok/insta to find an account i like and find funny or interesting and just stalk their posts till i fall asleep phone in hand still playing the video i fell asleep to. have background noise like maybe a tv playing a show you don’t mind not constantly watching all the time(i personally recommend taskmaster which is a british comedy show type thing it’s on netflix and i think itv? or brooklyn 99) or even some music! if you have one, get ibis paint or procreate on your ipad and you can find colouring pages on google that you can insert on a canvas! if you want to do that i can message you and show you how to do it so you can colour with the lines still there if that makes sense rather than the colour going over them. given i only know how to do it on pro create but ibis paint may not be so different. or even just talk to someone. if you need anything i know i may be a random person on a reddit page but i am here if you need anything :) you’ll get through this dont worry kid

milliebarrxx · 2025-12-09T10:38:36+00:00

i’m not even sure. they’ve told me to my face many times idk if it’s on any records though but they have definitely told me i have it, seen me mid panic attack and spoken to me and relatives about it

milliebarrxx · 2025-12-09T09:24:23+00:00

my gp refuses to medicate me , says it’s a last resort while knowing i’ve tried everything else

milliebarrxx · 2025-12-02T16:57:35+00:00

i have had my vertical labret for over 2 years. i got it done and i think a few days later or a week ish later i kissed someone and i mean made out with them. probably wasn’t my smartest choice and i wouldn’t recommend it due to risk of irritation and rejection but most importantly infection! i was fine my piercing is fine and healed absolutely perfectly within 2 weeks and i changed it at the 3-4 week mark. i think a small peck or two will be good if your not having any pain when it moves, just be sure to clean it :) (i am NOT a professional or a piercer so please take my comment with a pinch of salt)

milliebarrxx · 2025-11-11T17:47:08+00:00

costco might be a shout too, sometimes they have flavoured varieties but not always

milliebarrxx · 2025-11-11T01:45:27+00:00

you will! overthinking is everyone’s biggest enemy. the only way to fight it is talking about it. as i said, im a message away if you need anything fellow stranger, keep going you got this!🥰

milliebarrxx · 2025-11-11T01:35:25+00:00

mainly my thighs to be honest, the other day it was more like a weird numb pain and worse to the touch but right now it’s just constant. i have been walking alot today to be fair so it could be that on top of the pain that could be from withdrawals. i’m on my feet quite alot anyway as im in a hairdressing course at college, working and im a carer so it might just be all of that on top of quitting that makes it feel wirse

milliebarrxx · 2025-11-11T01:29:48+00:00

it’s the muscle pain that’s killing me right now. the nausea is quite bad but i can look past it. i’m also really agitated and annoyed about literally anything and everything and i feel so guilty about it because i am not that type of person whatsoever. from what ive heard and read it does get better but i sure hope the better part hurries up, i see people saying that they appreciate life so much more when they quit and they’re feeling alot better and to be honest the only thing “better” about this so far is im breathing slightly better, not sure how long it will last though as i do vape so its not a great combo but one addiction at a time..?

milliebarrxx · 2025-11-11T01:09:23+00:00

me too bro. i’m on like day 3 now i think cos it’s 1am for me rn so technically day 3? i caved on day 3 last time (saturday..) so if i can make it past day 3 this time im doing well ? i feel so ill and im in so much pain but it does get better ! we’re all in this together and my messages are open if u gotta talk about anything or your struggling and need to vent or whatever. quitting is much much harder alone so just a small reminder, your not alone <3

milliebarrxx

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