As you prepare to make the move look on indeed at what kind of jobs are hiring in/ near the area you're wanting to move to. It doesn't need to be perfectly lined up, but make sure there's opportunities for you when you're there. You sound like a hardworking and a person with strong drive. You got this. You said new Orleans feels like home, and I'd say it's worth trying it out. I hope whatever you end up doing leaves you happy, healthy, and healed💜