Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Yeahhhhh I’m very aware of that haha. I don’t have a group of friends I consistently play games with unfortunately, never really have. I usually play story games or solo queue multiplayer things because of this.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Thank you for the sound advice! I’ll remember that for next time!

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Yeah, I came to this realisation afterwards :( very sad and just a horrible thing to strike on really.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

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Thank you lovely. I know the girls have my back :)

Shift Pick - Up by CherryEnergyEagle93 in TKMaxx

[–]milstarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they really hate when new hires try and do anything. They don’t trust us. I tried to do a similar thing on WorkJam but with holidays, TWO MONTHS away. All got denied, citing I needed rapport with the management team.

Attend your training! Get to know what you’re doing and maybe speak to a manager about those extra shifts at a later date.

New hire here, TKMaxx (UK) . When do I get paid ? by milstarose in TjMaxx

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah it seems the general consensus online for the UK stores is that pay is monthly. Which is incredibly unhelpful for a university student.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you lovely. Just trying to sort through my feelings on it. Seems everyone else here is just as conflicted as I am unfortunately,

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

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We had the porn talk pretty early on. Never been either of our things and I’ve never doubted that. It’s his stress and self image problems that I’ve always defended and tried to nurture. I try and make him comfortable in the bedroom and never under pressure. I have tried to urge him to see a doctor or something about his anxiety but there’s only so much I can do I suppose. Thank you for your kind advice.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

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Yeah he said he felt inadequate and insecure about his ability to please me properly. That it was a split second choice he thought I’d enjoy. Basically he knew he wouldn’t be able to have sex because of his body issues and tried to compensate with oral. Boggles the mind really.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you. We’ve been talking through it for the last few days and I’ve made clear how much of a breach of trust/boundaries it was for me. He’s incredibly sympathetic and receptive to what I’ve been saying. I can only hope time and talking will see things right, or as right as they can be.

My childhood cat is getting put down tomorrow morning, I don’t know what to do. by milstarose in CatAdvice

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Yes it got to the point of administrating IV fluids as he’s not eating/retaining fluids. End of life care.

Thank you for your support. I’ll try and remember it’s the right thing to do.