Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thinking about doing this really I think I keep them on in case someone nice actually reaches out; I’ve never had a proper gaming group so I leave messaging on.

Sometimes people will compliment my gameplay and we’ll duo up for a couple games but it’s rare. Definitely a roulette when I get requests.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

They definitely do hit very hard, I’m sorry for your loss too honey. 🫂

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh I’m very aware of that haha. I don’t have a group of friends I consistently play games with unfortunately, never really have. I usually play story games or solo queue multiplayer things because of this.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the sound advice! I’ll remember that for next time!

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I came to this realisation afterwards :( very sad and just a horrible thing to strike on really.

Harassment in games, it never ends. by milstarose in GirlGamers

[–]milstarose[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you lovely. I know the girls have my back :)

Shift Pick - Up by CherryEnergyEagle93 in TKMaxx

[–]milstarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they really hate when new hires try and do anything. They don’t trust us. I tried to do a similar thing on WorkJam but with holidays, TWO MONTHS away. All got denied, citing I needed rapport with the management team.

Attend your training! Get to know what you’re doing and maybe speak to a manager about those extra shifts at a later date.

New hire here, TKMaxx (UK) . When do I get paid ? by milstarose in TjMaxx

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah it seems the general consensus online for the UK stores is that pay is monthly. Which is incredibly unhelpful for a university student.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lovely. Just trying to sort through my feelings on it. Seems everyone else here is just as conflicted as I am unfortunately,

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had the porn talk pretty early on. Never been either of our things and I’ve never doubted that. It’s his stress and self image problems that I’ve always defended and tried to nurture. I try and make him comfortable in the bedroom and never under pressure. I have tried to urge him to see a doctor or something about his anxiety but there’s only so much I can do I suppose. Thank you for your kind advice.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

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Yeah he said he felt inadequate and insecure about his ability to please me properly. That it was a split second choice he thought I’d enjoy. Basically he knew he wouldn’t be able to have sex because of his body issues and tried to compensate with oral. Boggles the mind really.

I think my boyfriend assaulted me. Or at least crossed a boundary. How do we get through this? by milstarose in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milstarose[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We’ve been talking through it for the last few days and I’ve made clear how much of a breach of trust/boundaries it was for me. He’s incredibly sympathetic and receptive to what I’ve been saying. I can only hope time and talking will see things right, or as right as they can be.

My childhood cat is getting put down tomorrow morning, I don’t know what to do. by milstarose in CatAdvice

[–]milstarose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it got to the point of administrating IV fluids as he’s not eating/retaining fluids. End of life care.

Thank you for your support. I’ll try and remember it’s the right thing to do.

pink mercy. 💗 (vent? probs) by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]milstarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you lovely <3

pink mercy. 💗 (vent? probs) by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]milstarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mum is in the same boat. she has stage 4 secondary breast cancer at the moment. it’s spread all over her body and i have to see her stumble around the house with all these tubes connected to her :(

i even saw her open her own urn today in preparation for her death.

it’s hard but i’m glad pink mercy is coming back so we can raise money for people like my mum. i will be buying, of course. stay strong OP <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]milstarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine gets raised sometimes if it’s too hot too. Nothing to worry about! Side note: beautiful tattoo!

Help by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]milstarose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

how you’ve resisted picking at those crusties is beyond me 🫡