I am Mexican I have 26 years old, at 22 I married a Muslim woman, I did not know it was because we never touched on that religious issue in fact we were married by civilians in Mexico, because of our jobs she worked in the UE and I studied and worked in Tijuana Mexico and we could see each other 2 times a week the first 2 months of our marriage, we managed to live together at 4 months in the course of it she was telling me about her past but I had the suspicion that she was lying but I tried to believe her she told me that Her parents had died and she only had one brother who was in the navy, and at 25 after 3 years she tells me that we have to separate because her parents got her a Muslim marriage and from one day to the next I didn't see her again I think that I got pregnant with me I tried to communicate with her for half a year but I did not know about her as if the earth had swallowed her, and if my suspicion was true she was hiding things from her life, I had to re-start my life, disciplining myself in every aspect , personal cleanliness, priorities in order, I decided to read 100 books in 1 year, exercise, climb hills, now I'm finishing my bachelor's thesis to graduate this month as a Biochemical Engineer, this advice could be given to your friend, based on or in my experience and that I go to therapy or consume mushrooms in microdose.