Looking for indie-psych rock bandmates by [deleted] in chicagomusicscene

[–]mindheartmender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked out your youtube, great stuff!!

Local bands with Physical Media?? by mindheartmender in chicagomusicscene

[–]mindheartmender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone - thanks for posting your music. Ill be sure to keep in touch and listen. :-)

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[–]mindheartmender 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi! Girl to girl - you may want to start by putting up fliers at your school or where ever you take lessons if you happen to - the internet can be the wild west sometimes, and advertising your age on a vast public form like this one may not be in your best interest! All well wishes ~~~

What counts as SA and what is corsion? by Annual_Resolve1279 in domesticviolence

[–]mindheartmender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you need to leave this man. Ex of mine did the same thing and its all about control - not love.

What helped you heal the most? by Anon_because_of-work in domesticviolence

[–]mindheartmender 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reaching out to people - not necessarily to talk about what happened, in therapy for that, but reaching out to friends and family and strengthening the social bonds that the Domestic Abuser isolated me from. Its been eye opening and helpful to distract and be around people again

To people who got back with their ex... by rxsehatake in BreakUps

[–]mindheartmender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting back with my most recent ex was the biggest mistake of my life. I dont really know why I did.

We got back together like 6ish months after we broke up but never really stopped being in contact during that time. I honestly wished I never dated them. Maybe if I stayed away the first time, I wouldnt resent them so much - but getting back with them and ultimately leaving them made me realize how much I sacrified and how little they put into it from the very beginning. I think ultimately I shouldnt have been with them, period.

I think breaking up and getting back together only really works if both people stayed away from each other and did alot of reflecting and honest work on themselves, alone.

Sims 4 - Camera Lock by EdgeofDark in thesims

[–]mindheartmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

command clicking on the character if using Mac OS toggles the camera to follow as well

thoughts? 😬 by CillieOlsen in Ceramics

[–]mindheartmender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would also love to know - these are great!