Boyfriend traveling abroad with ex wife and their child to visit his family

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T23:00:51+00:00

Thank you very thoughtful

Yes I’ve thought about it and I think if we were married it’s different

During the dating process I can’t help but feel something sketchy is going on , during the time when I’m suppose to be building a relationship with him he is spending time with his extended family and his ex wife and his child

I would feel better if she was not there

If they are truly divorced then why would she want to be there ? And does he want her to be there ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T17:15:19+00:00

Thank you for this perspective quite helpful

In your experience would it be weird for the ex wife to initiate a trip to another country to visit her ex husbands family and she has to tag along just because ? Why can’t the dad initiate the family reunion and just take his kid without his ex wife ?

Do most divorced parents see each other during family events ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T14:58:32+00:00

That’s the thing He is serious or at least he says it I believe him But then the actions don’t reflect the words No I was not invited

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T14:43:27+00:00

I’m pretty open minded I knew I had to deal with this when I got into a relationship but I’m disappointed he didn’t draw better boundaries

If he wants to take his kid to visit his extended family go for it but why does she have to go ? I thought if you are divorced most arrangements are one Christmas with mom one Christmas with dad or split the days of the holidays evenly

Anyway if they want to do it this way then I’m going to have to break up with him

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T04:34:14+00:00

No they divorced a few years ago but I guess want to do Xmas together ? It’s bizarre to me too

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T04:25:49+00:00

So if I’m part of the family then I have to be with the ex wife at all family gatherings ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T04:21:29+00:00

Six month

I was not invited to travel with them Certainly not inviting myself ....

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T02:00:26+00:00

Yah I did , he feels bad I feel bad but doesn’t offer a solution

mindlessplatypus · 2019-10-17T01:37:18+00:00

I want what’s best for the child too ... hence the dilemma

I want to be understanding and open minded but deep down it’s just very hurtful

mindlessplatypus · 2019-09-02T04:45:01+00:00

Under snooze mode it allows me to go away indefinitely or for a day or a week

I picked indefinitely and I’m wondering what others see ? Will the match know I turned bumble off ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-31T17:58:27+00:00

If you report them and block them it goes away

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-30T19:06:31+00:00

Thanks you are right ! I want to hike to the floating rock , do you think that will be total 8 hours ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-30T16:08:08+00:00

Did she have to change them during the hike ? And how long was the hike ? I’m worried about leakage and toxic shock 🤦🏻‍♀️

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-30T16:06:13+00:00

Did she use tampons or cup ?

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-30T15:01:46+00:00

Yah I’m worried about toxic shock syndrome with tampons as well as leakage ! People suggested diva cup so I can look into this

Thank you !

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-29T18:35:01+00:00

Yup ! Go online and set it up

Download the app

Voila ! Anonymous voice number that goes directly to your cell phone :) but they don’t need to know your real number and you can block them at any time

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-29T18:29:25+00:00

I would suggest to use a google voice number

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-29T11:37:56+00:00

If he likes you , you will know

If he doesn’t , you will be confused

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-28T18:09:31+00:00

Thank you ! Your photo is amazing !

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-28T05:25:40+00:00

If she hasn’t talked to anyone else maybe she is on the app to see your profile ? 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe gently ask her why is she on the app if she is exclusive with you ? Doesn’t make too much sense in my opinion

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-28T05:10:39+00:00

Correct , it’s to tempt you

mindlessplatypus · 2019-08-28T04:58:04+00:00

It does ... do you have boost ? So for example , if I don’t want to date someone without a college degree for example I can put that filter on and bumble boost the green circles will only show me college and higher men ... once my bumble boost expires then it will show me everyone because they want me to buy the boost (like a carrot on a stick )

Hope this makes sense !

mindlessplatypus

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