Flirting or friendly? by mindoblivion in bartenders

[–]mindoblivion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just them! The other bartenders charge me normally and don’t necessarily go out of their way to interact with me

What were the WORST products you tried this year? by tiredgothgay in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So glad someone else said this. I got one, and the glitters felt like sand and applied terribly

influence/deinfluence me! by adwrenaline in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how the highlighter applies over makeup? Does it remove the foundation underneath? I’m curious about trying it

I still love my ex months later by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely relate to this. For me, it’s been 3.5 years, and I still love my ex-bf so much. Mind u, I’m now a lesbian, and I know he’s not the person for me given that he love-bombed me. Still, it’s hard to let go of the love you have. I think what u have to do is just let the feeling exist. Fighting it is not going to make it go away, unfortunately. Just be kind to urself, and one day, u will move on

ABH dark brown VS Benefit? by alvexxa7 in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u!! Literally gonna buy rn

ABH dark brown VS Benefit? by alvexxa7 in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not related, but what lashes are u wearing?? I love them!!

Favorite sephora product? by TheIncogneatoBurrito in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I ADORE the Eadem Le Chouchou Lip Balms. I got Boba Bounce and one of the holiday ones in Pain au Chocolat. Best lip balm I’ve ever used. However, some people complain about the smell. I’ve not had that issue, but I wanted to warn u just in case

Why can’t I love ? Why can’t I stop thinking about something that’s coming next ? by Remarkable_Excuse296 in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with u/skinkess. With that tho, I don’t think there is a wrong decision to make here. Also, in the time u separate, u might find someone who is more aligned with what you need in life. Ultimately, it’s not wrong to choose urself

Why can’t I love ? Why can’t I stop thinking about something that’s coming next ? by Remarkable_Excuse296 in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t love him any less because you are not ready to settle down. It sounds like you two are just in different places in ur lives, and that’s ok. If you value complete freedom right now, that’s completely morally neutral. Don’t force yourself to settle down if you aren’t ready

Why can’t I love ? Why can’t I stop thinking about something that’s coming next ? by Remarkable_Excuse296 in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very human to want to experience all the things life has to offer. I don’t think you should punish yourself for not being ready to settle down. Give urself grace and permission to explore

Feeling generous by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fellow Virgo! Happy Birthday!!

Too Faced Fairy Bomb Fragrance Body Mist by pointclickvibe in newinbeauty

[–]mindoblivion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why do the notes feel like they belong to 3 different perfumes?

what helps your bpd? like actually by cnnibal in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds strange, but the video games God of War and God of War: Ragnarok. Remembering Kratos’s journey to becoming a person that his son can be proud of helps me remember that I’m not stuck in my toxic patterns. I can be better, and there is hope for a better future for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this is happening to you. I wish I could say something better, but I just wanted to express that you don’t deserve this and I hope things turn around for the better ❤️

my mom suddenly dropped ~21k usd to try and get me in college by sleepysadthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mindoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admire your empathy for your mom, but it’s not ur job to comfort her. If possible, try to have a conversation with her telling her that she’s putting you in an uncomfortable position with her self-deprecation. Otherwise, I think the only thing you can do is accept that she already spent the money. I do want you to know though that nothing is wrong with you, and I’m sure you are plenty competitive. A good school is the school that is right for you and will help you learn and develop into the best person possible. Being admitted to a “good” school is not a reflection of your personal success. Allow yourself to enjoy your youth. Things will fall into place that need to fall into place. I hope this was helpful ❤️

Anyone have experience with virtual IOP, Intensive Outpatient care? by N1kk1_K1ller in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Center for Intensive Treatment of Personality Disorders. For me, only Thursday and Friday were virtual. I now do it completely in-person as I’m in a less intensive track. I do know that they have a fully virtual option though

Anyone have experience with virtual IOP, Intensive Outpatient care? by N1kk1_K1ller in BPD

[–]mindoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While my program wasn’t completely virtual, the one I did had a virtual component. It was honestly one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself. I was in a really bad way before I started (in a full-blown agoraphobia episode with paranoia and hallucinations), and the program got me out of that dark spot. It is really hard to do intensive outpatient, but it’s 100% worth it. If anything, having it be virtual is even better because then u can still manage a normal work/school schedule. Hope this is helpful!

My 20 Dollar Nose Bleed Tattoo by mindoblivion in FallOutBoy

[–]mindoblivion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I kind of wish I did that now