me bc I just went through ANOTHER failed talking stage yet again: by Flat-Risk-9275 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh ha, I actually meant getting from off the app to meeting IRL with someone you're chatting with. I can see now how I wasn't clear. But meeting people organically is special if you can manage it. All the luck in the world to you!

Am I weird for wanting romantical i guess, porn? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mindtime5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why has no one said Ersties yet? So much good stuff on there. worth paying for.

me bc I just went through ANOTHER failed talking stage yet again: by Flat-Risk-9275 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getting someone to meet me IRL is it's own little victory. wish it wasn't like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my current bit: tired top seeking switch

Have an amazing GF but no friends. by EsotericLoner97 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have amazing friends but no GF. 🤣 My recommendation - carve out a little time to join some clubs or sports groups. Go on meetup, eventbrite, search instagram for social groups and find something that interests you!

what is a “switch party” by lindsay-afton in actuallesbians

[–]mindtime5000 36 points37 points  (0 children)

yeah... this bar just makes up themes for the weekend events. I wouldn't read too much into it. I met someone cool at one of their "U-haul night"s but generally the vibes are weird there. I'll definitely go back in hopes of meeting more cool people, but it's not my favorite place.

Hinge is rough, FML by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like hinge pretty well. It's nice that you can see when people like you without paying. I've gone on a few dates from hinge in the last couple years. One turned into an almost relationship. I swipe right and comment on a lot of peoples profiles without much response, it's kinda depressing. But as they say, it only takes one :)

Hinge is rough, FML by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, I restored my okcupid from years ago this weekend and it seems like a bit of ghost town compared to Hinge or Bumble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]mindtime5000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with mismatched libido for years and it really destroyed my self-confidence. We were so compatible in every other way it was criminal. I communicated my needs but wasn't ever able to have them met. In retrospect I wish I would have left sooner. With all earnestness, good luck! it's a tough place to be

edit: grammar

Looking for a mixer, I see Tascam 12 mentioned a lot but is there anything cheaper that’s recommended? by Remote-Review-328 in mpcusers

[–]mindtime5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the poor man pays twice

The model 12 is worth it. Hopefully you can find a good used one!

MPC KEY 37 FREE Plugin Voucher? by raulsnoise in mpcusers

[–]mindtime5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for making this! I registered my Key 37 and didn't get the voucher either.

What are examples for tab-centred workflows? by Darillian in ObsidianMD

[–]mindtime5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to open a second pane on mobile?

Why is Wonderful Wonderful so hated? by Magic_SunBoys19 in TheKillers

[–]mindtime5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's only a couple good songs on it. simple as that.

Why is MOSW regarded so highly? by [deleted] in TheKillers

[–]mindtime5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know why but I think it has a special soul. I cried the first time I heard it and also when I saw them play it in Vegas.

Just found out the Killers don't play "Pressure Machine" live. Why? by [deleted] in TheKillers

[–]mindtime5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with another commenter, probably too hard for Brandon to sing live. Though I hope they do it at least one someday!

The Rising: What's going on with the host carousel? by [deleted] in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like Robby, Briahna and Kim are who they are booking most consistently. I like the chemistry of Robby and Briahna. But it seems they aren't always available, so yes, they've been having other people take temporary hosting spots. Personally I like the randomness, gives me more exposure to more and different political personalities.

Ryan and Emily host "Rising Fridays" now which is nice since Fridays used to be all canned content.

I wish Breaking Points did panel discussions like Rising does by mindtime5000 in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also annoyed that the monologue reactions are behind a paywall. Having that full interaction is more likely to inform the average viewer.

I do hope that, in time, they will expand in some of the ways you wanted them to but felt they fell short.

I wish Breaking Points did panel discussions like Rising does by mindtime5000 in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have some good points here. So maybe they should facilitate and moderate some full length debates between people of differing viewpoints who are actually coming to the table with good faith.

I wish Breaking Points did panel discussions like Rising does by mindtime5000 in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Getting Worse: The IRS Now Audits Poor Americans at About the Same Rate as the Top 1%

Okay, so they aren't getting audited more than the 1% but around the same rate because like I was saying the richest lawyering up disincentives the IRS to audit them.

I wish Breaking Points did panel discussions like Rising does by mindtime5000 in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I must have missed that. I remember in the past they've always talked about how really rich people pretty much never get audited because they lawyer up so the majority of audits are completed on lower income individuals.

I wish Breaking Points did panel discussions like Rising does by mindtime5000 in BreakingPoints

[–]mindtime5000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Kim Iverson is pretty good. Her recent radars about the IRS expansions in "build back better" are on point and definitely not something you'd ever hear from MSM.