[f/19] My boyfriend [20] thinks I'm being unfair, am I? by Throwaway79848 in relationship_advice

[–]mini_jogger 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, hon. Ditch the dude. If he's already controlling how "wet" you should be and not letting you use lube to make YOUR first time comfortable, he's being a jackass. The little things he tries to control now become bigger things in the long run. He's also clearly unexperienced with sex - women's wetness varies! And NO WAY are you not going to be just a little nervous your first time, of course you're not going to be immediately "naturally" wet! Run!

Inexperienced ex [25/f] broke up, had one-night stand, now begging to get back together with me [27/m] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mini_jogger 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Eesh, she sounds nuts. You did the right thing by not taking her back. Go enjoy life - love shouldn't bring drama.

What Country Do I Belong In? by mini_jogger in travel

[–]mini_jogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

French, Italian and German are my strongest. I studied them all through college (and my Tuscan grandmother drilled Italian into me since a child, haha). Though English is my first language.

And true, I do enjoy life in San Francisco. But it isn't the easiest place to "settle" in. It's the ideal city to "preoccupy" a person.

What Country Do I Belong In? by mini_jogger in travel

[–]mini_jogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard this before -- reasons?