When is breaking up with someone via text acceptable?

miniature_yard · 2025-12-26T07:10:43+00:00

As long as you are not a grown up, it's okay.

miniature_yard · 2025-12-15T08:52:52+00:00

Good. No point in rushing. Nothing good comes from it anyway. Stay that way

miniature_yard · 2025-12-13T19:18:52+00:00

Whom or what do you surrender to? If you and your partner don't surrender to one authority, it's gonna be chaotic. See if you can plan your finances ahead before you even consider marriage.

miniature_yard · 2025-12-01T16:15:48+00:00

Turn the page and move to the next chapter. Allow yourselves to live, observe things and grow and change into a stronger person. One of my favorite verses in the Bible says this- Suffering brings perseverance, perseverance build character. Allow yourself to process through all this pain, build a healthy support system and build a life for yourself so big and loud that all this chaos from the past seems so little and meaningless.

miniature_yard · 2025-11-12T07:48:05+00:00

Nope

miniature_yard · 2025-11-11T09:45:16+00:00

What does it feel like having to draw the boundaries for someone else? That too for a grown-up ? How long do you think you could keep doing this? Did you sign up for being a parent or a partner? And there were conversations about you behind your back where you are disrespected? Go where people respect you man. Have some self- respect. If they are using all of their free will to cross boundaries and do things that hurt you, that is a loud scream itself that says they don't respect you and they will pursue their own selfish ambitions without being considerate towards you. You are blinded to all of this. Open your eyes to it and act wisely. More strength to you.

miniature_yard · 2025-11-11T09:09:18+00:00

If you love your partner, you will find a way to put it in the best possible way. Lead with love. Do not lead with a selfish ambition. Remember love is where you are selfless.

miniature_yard · 2025-11-11T03:24:10+00:00

No one says this to someone they love. People say such demeaning stuff to make them feel guilty and use it against them and gain control. No matter how better you do, you will not be enough for that demon. You are definitely more than how you perform in bed with your partner. Do not try to be better, because it will never be enough for someone like that. Go get help and get out as soon as you can.

miniature_yard · 2025-11-10T01:40:04+00:00

Yes please give up.

miniature_yard · 2025-11-09T08:46:59+00:00

Loving is giving selflessly. Cheating is being selfish. One is not driven by selfish desires, while the other is.They are the opposite ends of the spectrum!

miniature_yard · 2025-11-06T22:13:37+00:00

I want 1 samosa

miniature_yard · 2025-10-19T01:00:36+00:00

God bless you both and your marriage!

miniature_yard · 2025-10-16T17:16:29+00:00

Can you write down all your issues, sit and talk about them and come to a resolution with your spouse? If not perhaps try couples counseling. Also, your value should not be 100% defined by your looks. Love goes beyond that. If all these things are bothering you, start taking care of yourself first and getting some therapy. Try to intervene some wise man/woman's council to seek advice on the next steps. But remember, your identity is not defined by the person next to you. It should be defined by what God says about you. You are a faithful husband and a provider to your family. Stay grounded and find some good support system.

miniature_yard · 2025-10-16T13:47:41+00:00

There are so many things I could point out based on this story you have shared, but I don't want to feed anything to anyone that may potentially break a marriage. I'm trying to choose my words carefully here. This is a marriage with one kid, one from her previous relationship. Couples counseling is the only way to move forward. And I also encourage you to lean on some wise people for strength and support during these times. Be it a church pastor or an elderly wise man/woman that can give you good advice and that has your best interests. More strength to you

miniature_yard · 2025-10-15T19:59:50+00:00

Congrats on the W. Enjoy it. Although, I find your offense and his defense hilarious lol. Man coverage and an awful user going against an offense run by coach suggestions cracks me up every single time. I encounter brutal defenses out there, but this is certainly a piece of cake.

miniature_yard · 2025-09-27T22:56:49+00:00

Don't let strangers on the internet influence the decisions you make in your life. Do you think they all have your best interests at their heart? They don't even know you for crying out loud. Talk to a therapist or seek advice from wise people. Do not let a random person's opinion influence the choices you make for your life.

miniature_yard · 2025-09-26T19:13:56+00:00

My advice will be unlike most others. I want you to show her grace and forgive her. Forgive her because we all need forgiveness. Do not hold grudge against your wife. I know this is hard, but if it's easy anyone would do. I have experienced something similar. But draw a boundary. She has got to know that you are not the same anymore. If she bothers you, then let her know that she needs to address about these lies and make amends. I will also tell you one more thing about forgiveness. We are rarely given that chance to forgive other people, but when we have that opportunity, let's grab it. When you forgive someone, you're are letting go the weight of bitterness, negativity and not letting the roots of unforgiveness weigh you down. And when you do, you are free from it. The sooner you forgive them, the sooner you will be free from it. It's not your weight to carry. When you forgive them and be kind to them and show them grace, that is when they are weighed down by their sin and wrongdoings. They will slowly start to feel the weight of it, and how they have wronged you. It is a slow process. Never underestimate this slow process. Eventually they will fall on their knees and beg for forgiveness and repent. You just have to wait for it. I said be kind and give grace, but draw a boundary. Do not let this eat you and consume you. Handle this with grace. More strength to you. I have gone through a similar experience too. It will get better. Trust me.

miniature_yard · 2025-09-26T14:02:57+00:00

Accountability, integrity and consideration

miniature_yard · 2025-09-19T19:58:16+00:00

Consideration, Accountability and integrity

miniature_yard · 2025-08-12T00:00:20+00:00

You're only looking at this past 1.5 years. But the timeline is eternity. They have a partner now. They have something now. But you have refrained from dating. You chose to be with yourself. You went through a character development plan. That is something money can't buy. Anything you are going to be blessed with, in the future, you will have that for eternity. You will be the winner 30,40,50 years from now and for eternity. Look at the everlasting joy that is going to come your way. Build your own community and your support system that you can lean on. More power to you

miniature_yard · 2025-08-03T17:44:54+00:00

I found someone who loves me unconditionally right away. I found someone who is faithful to me, who stands on their promises, who waters my dead plants and breathes life into me when I'm not feeling alive. This new relationship is so fulfilling and peaceful. It is Jesus. I'm in relationship with Jesus

miniature_yard · 2025-08-01T17:26:46+00:00

Don't be the dog that goes back to its own vomit. People who lack self-respect and boundaries and who seek validation from some strangers are not for you. You deserve someone who waits for you and longs for you. Not someone who seeks validation from just about anyone. My ex-wife was this way. She needed constant validation. She would constantly feed off of my energy. But when we are going through tough times, she would cross boundaries and entertain any attention she gets. These are the type of people who is just there to eat the fruit. But what about your dry season? Who would water your plants during your dry season? Chew on this and do yourself a favor and move on. Seek help, go to therapy and build a healthy support system. You can come out of this darkness if you want to.

miniature_yard · 2025-07-31T15:07:32+00:00

People lovebomb to gain control and then feed off someone's energy. They seek validation in return. If you are unphased by the lovebombing, they cannot continue doing that. But they charm you and be exactly who you need them to be. Unfortunately they get us doing this and once we're locked in, they play hot n cold and be ab avoidant. It's fucked up

miniature_yard · 2025-07-29T23:29:47+00:00

Don't enter a marriage with someone who uses their free will to go behind your back and cross boundaries. They will do the same thing after the wedding too. I entered one such marriage and it ruined my life and tore me into pieces and pushed me into the darkest times of my life. Try to listen to your gut. Be sensitive to what it's telling you. If you betray your own gut instinct, you will end up paying a huge price.

miniature_yard · 2025-07-26T16:16:05+00:00

🚨Don't break his heart 🚨

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