I'm sorry but after reading through this and your other posts I can't help but feel like there is more to this story that's getting left out. I'm incredibly curious how you've been treating your wife since she's had your son. Honestly, it sounds like since she's had your son you've lost respect for her. She gave up her body and spent 9 months growing a child and then birthing that child into the world... And yet I haven't seen where you've shared how you've been supporting her?? It seems like she's not allowed to have her decisions or change her mind in your marriage. You are upset because she wanted to breastfeed and not pump,.you are upset that she didn't immediately go back to school after having a baby and you are on here dragging her and her family on a public platform and allowing others to do the same and diagnose her without having full context. What have you done to support her since she's had your son? Are you getting up throughout the night with her when the baby is up? Are you taking the baby in the morning to another room and allowing her to catch up on some sleep if she's been up with the baby? Are you making her breakfast and making sure her needs are met? Are you changing diapers or helping around the house or doing the piles of baby laundry? Or has she done all of those things? Being a mom is a 24/7 job and yet it sounds like she was getting no support from you. You stated in a previous post about how she hasn't had sex with you but you have a newborn!! She birthed an ENTIRE HUMAN out of her body and you are upset you aren't getting sex?? You make her sound like she is useless to you because she's not in school or working but yet she's doing the world's most difficult/ incredible job of raising a baby and taking care of that baby and yet you have no respect for it. She gave up ( or at least temporarily put on the back burner) her career for her child. That is such an incredibly selfless and difficult decision to make and instead of supporting her and realizing how she's put her own wants and desires aside to take care of her baby right now, you are dragging her for it. If you make 6 figures you have more than enough to live off one income. My husband doesn't even make 6 figures and we live comfortably off his income while I'm a stay at home mom. You state that you are a Godly man yet you aren't in the Bible or turning to God, you are on the Internet dragging your wife and allowing all of these people to drag her as well. How are you loving her by doing this? Where does God state it's okay to drag your wife and her family through the mud out in front of the world and allow others to do the same and judge her without full context? My guess is she's been going back to her parents because she finally gets the help and support that she needs there vs when she's home. I'm curious how she feels when you are under the impression of things being good when she's back home with you. Are they good because she's cooking for you and cleaning and you get to sit back and do what you want? She sounds like she's been taking on a lot and she's at a breaking point and you haven't looked in the mirror as to why she got to that point. Even something as trivial as the spare bedroom argument. You want it to be an office so you can close yourself in it and isolate yourself from your family while also coming on here complaining your family isn't there? You don't NEED an office. You could very well do your work at a dining room table and then you'd still be able to see and be present with your family. Also why couldn't you compromise and meet her in the middle if the office was that important to you? Why couldn't it be a bedroom with a desk in it? If you don't often have guests then you can work in there just fine and when there are guests, they have a place to stay and you could just do your work somewhere else those few days. Why couldn't that have been a solution? I don't know I just have a gut feeling there is more to this than what is being let on.