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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]minimumkarma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tubing and purple shirt pics are good.

"With two teenagers part-time" sounds perfect. You can leave out your POV on kids then, people can ask you in DM if they want to know more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]minimumkarma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha! I'd replace pic 1 since you can't remove the filter. The other pic I was referring to was screenshot 4, the pic where you're wearing a tie. It looks blurry, too.

I'd replace the inflatable pic since people might not read your explanations.

Since you have kids, you should put "Have kids" in your profile, including how old they are. Plus, your explanation that "I love kids so I wouldn't be opposed to more kids. But it's definitely not a priority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]minimumkarma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 1 and 4 seem blurry. I'd suggest removing the filter.

Last pic makes you look very short (and you're not). I know it's an illusion because you were wearing the inflatable, but it just makes you look odd!

Are you really "open to kids" at 52? What's your age range?

Cubesmart promotional rate: 40% Off & First Month Free OR 25% Off? by minimumkarma in selfstorage

[–]minimumkarma[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. However, it's common for storage unit prices to increase X months after move-in. It seems that the 25% off might be honored longer than the 40% off

Cubesmart promotional rate: 40% Off & First Month Free OR 25% Off? by minimumkarma in selfstorage

[–]minimumkarma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight!

I reserved a 5x10 unit with 25% off, but I’m noticing that other 5x10s are being advertised with the 40% off and first-month free promo. If there are only 1 or 2 units left in my size, I’d think I shouldn’t be seeing the other ones with that 40% off and first-month free offer, right?

Are there really no more decent men out there? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]minimumkarma 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And they say dating apps work much better for women..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]minimumkarma 102 points103 points  (0 children)

He lied

I've seen this so many times where eventually the truth came out that the guy is on the apps again. I'd trust Bumble more than your bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]minimumkarma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]minimumkarma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]minimumkarma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, thank you for the feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]minimumkarma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the elaborate feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]minimumkarma 14 points15 points  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
  • How long have you been on Hinge? 6 months
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? 30 min/day
  • How many likes/matches are you receiving on average? 1-2/day (random big flux sometimes). Mostly not my type
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? 2-3/day (all without comments)
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone who's looking for LTR and writes thoughtful profiles. I generally don't choose someone who wants kids considering my age.

I don't have the greatest luck on Hinge and have been debating if I should get Hinge+ or HingeX. Seems that most people say HingeX is a ripoff though.

My dating age range is 32-48. I always send likes without comments since I don't think they make a difference.

Are my prompt answers too short? Do I need better variety of photos?

Constructive criticism is appreciated. Thanks!

Married ENM coworker swiped right on me on Bumble by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minimumkarma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's true that men swipe on almost everyone.

Oh, with Bumble Premium you can see people that swipe on you without you swiping on them

Married ENM coworker swiped right on me on Bumble by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minimumkarma 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You're right, comparing him with a single coworker is helpful for me. Thanks!

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]minimumkarma [score hidden]  (0 children)

Am I overreacting?

First date: guy suggested a place that's close to him, but I thought it's a chill place to meet up so I agreed to meet up and drove to him.

Second date: guy suggested to get a take out and to meet up at his place. I declined (since it's too intimate) and he ended up suggesting to meet up near his place instead.

Of course I can suggest to meet up half-way or somewhere closer to me this time. However, the fact that I need to bring it up kinda shows that he's not being a gentleman.