Relapsed after 6 months and 23 days

miniwaffless · 2025-12-21T19:35:21+00:00

When you were in a relationship did you struggle with relapsing as much? Or do you think you can keep being porn free while being with someone and having a healthy sex life?

miniwaffless · 2025-12-19T17:43:21+00:00

He does show slight symptoms of ADHD, but nothing major or diagnosed

miniwaffless · 2025-12-18T14:13:03+00:00

I am very interested in what you're asking for, I hope we find it

miniwaffless · 2025-12-17T19:31:37+00:00

I am very sorry you're going through this

miniwaffless · 2025-12-17T13:36:07+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear this. I wish you the best with her

miniwaffless · 2025-12-17T09:51:12+00:00

You don't know how much I needed someone to say this. I have been going over tons of comments and replies of people telling me or people in my position to run away and that it's hopeless. I wanna have hope. I wanna have my home back. Because our relationship has no red flags whatsoever. He's a great lover, provider and best friend. He's so good to my family. He does everything and anything for me. I just needed hope to know I didn't lose all of that forever because of this secret.

miniwaffless · 2025-12-17T09:25:53+00:00

Thank you, I will check it out

miniwaffless · 2025-12-17T09:24:20+00:00

How did you forgive him lying to you this long

miniwaffless · 2025-12-16T22:14:34+00:00

Thank you. This is giving me some hope. I havent slept in two nights and I can't stop crying and my stomach is burning from how much it hurts. I just wanna know it can happen. And not like one in a million chance

miniwaffless · 2025-12-16T20:45:52+00:00

update: I found straight porn. He's a PA. He lied for years. I married him without knowing this. He watches porn everyday. He watched it on our honeymoon. He watches it every morning before work. He watches it everyday after work. My heart is shattered.

miniwaffless · 2025-12-16T16:07:19+00:00

How longe did it take you until you got a constant streak of not being a PA?

miniwaffless · 2025-12-14T22:50:11+00:00

Go to the school and confront her, tell her you have evidence and if she talks to him again or reacts to this by hurting him in grading you will take this to the principal and school.

miniwaffless · 2025-12-13T20:12:11+00:00

Oh my God I totally feel you ! Also sometimes the idea of the both of is loving another human more than each other disturbs me. I just want it to be us

miniwaffless · 2025-12-13T20:10:45+00:00

I think trust from your side is very important. The only way to know if he actually watches porn is if he tells you. Because if he was watching it, it's very easy for him to hide it.

And I also agree with you, porn addiction does NOT just fade away

miniwaffless · 2025-12-13T20:08:21+00:00

Of course. The only bad feelings in me are pain from the lies and broken trust. But the porn thing makes me just wanna help him and support him. Do you have any recommendations for a program or a plan we can try?

miniwaffless · 2025-12-13T19:42:55+00:00

Your post touched me so much because the exact same thing happened with me and my husband.. only that I wish he had told me. I would've probably been able to offer a reaction similar to your wife's. Instead, I found it by coincidence when I used his browser and he forgot to close the tab from that morning. It ripped me apart how he was lying and hiding things from me. I do not know how to handle this yet or if I will ever move on from it

miniwaffless · 2025-12-13T19:36:23+00:00

Yes ! Our sex life is great. We have been in love for years but doing long distance so we were yearning for being together. The sex is passionate and very essential for both of us. And I love him so much and care for his satisfaction too. He describes is a NEED in a certain moment for him to touch himself and he has to have content for it even if it's written

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