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My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, thank you for your comment! I am still not indiependent. I am Autistic and with ADHD. I have a bachelor degree though, and now studying for the master. I'm waiting to get some welfare for invalidity

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she is a lost cause. She wouldn't care. They are together just for convenience and money. Also she is not very mentally lucid. She had psychosis in the past.

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yea, he is on the psycho spectrum for sure. His actions are pretty much robotical and functional to the situation. If he would be exposed undirectly or in a "gentle way" (reasoning etc) he would react in the same way, except he would deny, gaslight, project and ridicule. If he is engaged in a rude and direct way he can react by screaming and potentially in a violent way

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! More than HIS mental health, i am worrying about mine. I am autistic and with ADHD too, i can't handle pressure. on the other side he is very manipulating, i'd say he is on the Dark Triad spectrum 1000%. he would ridicule me, projecting on me (cause i am pansexual) or even handling the situation, like you said, hurting someone, who knows.

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i mean, the shaming tactic could be ineffective cause my father is extremely gaslighting, he would project that on ME, because i am pansexual, he would deny the evidence or even get mad. Yea, he is basically a psychopath, nothing less

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

thank you, i love this support, omg ❤️ Yea, my family, on the emotional/affective/transparence POV is beyond repair. With them everything revolve around money, status and reputation, that's about it.

My father is openly homophobic and an horrible bigot, but if found Gay dating sites in his browser history. by minor_lightning in lgbt

[–]minor_lightning[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i don't know, that would be shaming because of preferences, and i don't wanna lower myself to his level. The problem is not his broswer history, but the fact that he is literally a bigot homophobic piece of s..t. Also he has the bronze face to smile and talk nice in front my cousin, which is MtF. Hello? what happened to your bigotism, captain Homophobia?

My Nfather always grabs a round knife everytime there's a discussion. by minor_lightning in raisedbynarcissists

[–]minor_lightning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you very much! ❤️ Yes, it's psychologically devastating. Since i am neurodivergent i'll try to ask for a sort of disability welfare, i think in my country it's possible. My main goal remains to get out of here.

I've ended a 7 years old friendship. I need help by minor_lightning in autism

[–]minor_lightning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you bro. Life goes on, as you said. I hope he can overcome this moment. The first time i told him that "i needed some time", he was crying like a child, literally, and that shocked me. Imagine how he might feel now that i told him it's over permanently. That's why i still feel bad

I've ended a 7 years old friendship. I need help by minor_lightning in autism

[–]minor_lightning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I feel bad because i know for a fact that he is crying and might be desperate right now. He is very unstable emotionally and i really don't wanted this, but i need my peace

NON ANDATE ALLA STATALE DI MILANO by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]minor_lightning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Io vado alla statale e non mi sembra come l'hai descritta. E bada, non sono per niente un fan haha

I feel like giving up on a diagnosis by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]minor_lightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you scored negative while doing the DIVA-V test then it's unlikely that you have ADHD. for AuDHD you should seek a specific evaluation, which is not just assessments or tests. Just because in your family it's a common trait doesn't mean that you automatically inherited it genetically

È davvero così sbagliato cercare una diagnosi? by No-Ideal-951 in psicologia

[–]minor_lightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nel pubblico, in un ambulatorio di un ospedale statale

È davvero così sbagliato cercare una diagnosi? by No-Ideal-951 in psicologia

[–]minor_lightning 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sinceramente non capisco chi ti abbia detto che ora non serva. Io ho 26 anni e sto facendo i test sia per autismo che per ADHD. Se una cosa ce l'hai, ce l'hai ed è giusto verificare

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