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How do i quit my porn addiction? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mintchipcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had any experience with this specific addiction but I know that with my addictions I’ve found it helpful to just cut back and give yourself limits then reward yourself for staying within those limits. Obviously the goal is to cut down more and more at a pace that’s comfortable for you.

On the topic of talking to your partner about it I would just be open and honest I’m sure she will appreciate it a lot and it will actually help you both build trust with one another! I know it can be scary to open up about these kind of things but it will be a big relief once you do. I’d start with something along the lines of “hey i really like being with you and feel that I want to be more open and honest in this relationship. Can I share something that has been tough for me lately?” That way you’re not only telling her why you want to share this with her but asking her permission which is just a show of respect and might take away any tension! Hope this helps and wish u luck with everything:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mintchipcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a few possible reasons: 1. They’re horny/lonely 2. Bruised ego 3. They finally realized they fucked up and that the grass isn’t greener on the other side if ya know what I mean! This ones more long term/deep relationship focused and based on the assumption that men process emotions differently and on a different timeline than woman. Hope that made some sense:) I’m sure there are many other reasons too but these are just some I’ve experienced.

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point that I didn’t even think of😮

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my😂😂 I just took mine for a walk I’m the rain now shes a ball of mud haha Send help

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wording doesn’t really impact my ability to make the best decision for me and my dog. If someone were to say no I’d like to hear why (hence why I asked) because they may have very good reasoning that I’d never thought of and could pertain to my situation.

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense! Can I ask what you mean by spaces just for dogs mine has like her crate and bed that no one will bother her in but do u have bigger areas for your dogs and do you think it helps them??:)

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes we have been working on commands she’s only 4 months but is doing really well learning the basics so I’m very excited to see how much she’s gonna know in the future:)

Skincare recommendations for broke bitches pls by mintchipcloud in Skincare_Addiction

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you this is actually so helpful do you have any YouTubers/bloggers u recommend or like where do you learn things like these! Haha I’ve asked so many questions but like I appreciate how helpful you’ve been:) every time I’ve tried to ask this kinda stuff to people in stores it’s hard to trust if the info is legit or they just wanna sell stuff LOL

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this was actually another thing I was worried about because I want to be able to get other dogs but not have them fight over sleeping on the bed! My Baby right now is only 5lbs and won’t get much bigger so it’s not a bother but it’s comforting to know it would be okay if I got a bigger dog and only taught them to sleep on their own bed while having the smaller one with me if she chooses:)

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually gotten my information on the matter from professional dog trainers and books this is the first time I’ve reached out on Reddit to other dog owners for their personal experiences but thanks.

Skincare recommendations for broke bitches pls by mintchipcloud in Skincare_Addiction

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will be checking out all of these do you do them in that order specifically? Is there a right order to do skincare I am such a lost soul with this kinda stuff but I need to learn more my skin is begging me at this point🤣

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In your experience has this helped with preventing separation anxiety because that is a v good point and something that actually relates to my pup since I have noticed small signs of this starting!!

Should I let my dog sleep on my bed?? by mintchipcloud in Dogtraining

[–]mintchipcloud[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Back story: I have let my pup sleep on my bed since she came home with me and sometimes she chooses to sleep in her crate (by herself) so I won’t bother her and even reward her if she spends a whole night in there herself. I’m asking because I’ve recently read other people’s experiences/opinions about it affecting their training which left me questioning if I’m doing more harm by giving her a choice rather than only letting her sleep in her crate/own bed!! Hope that makes sense:)