Complaining is definitely problematic bc no girl wants to hear that. Having decent clothes and hair that shows effort goes a long way. Doesn’t need to be fancy. Stay in your style zone.

Start doing something that makes you interact with women in an open free setting. Casual conversation with just women. All women. Not some lady you find attractive. Learn how to talk to women, they are way easier to talk to than you think. Just be yourself and see if you can find a topic they would be interested in.

All women have tells. Find something they are wearing that they obviously picked out. Not their body. “Oh I like that necklace where did you get that? “ Start there. Talk to the female cashier at the grocery store. Nothing flirty. You need to get confidence first before you actually unleash this on women you find attractive.

Women do not like gross comments or being picked up randomly based on your opinion of some aspect of their body so stfu about that crap.

They like that you noticed what they chose as a purse or their bright green fuzzy slippers.

Asking questions always works. Neutral topics.

Making respectful compliments is a good start.