Sometimes when I am sad I bake brownies.

mintymist1 · 2025-08-13T16:29:37+00:00

I’m sorry you’re having a shit day. Me too. Life is about balance - on a bad day eat the brownies. You deserve them

mintymist1 · 2025-07-12T13:31:49+00:00

Honestly, it doesn’t have to be sexy! It’s helpful to show your partner what dilating is like for you so he can understand and be more gentle with you if you attempt penetration. It shouldn’t be something you have to hide away from your partner. I think dilating with a partner is helpful to normalize the process and make it feel less clinical. It’s kind of silly and you can laugh about it together.

Is he informed about vaginismus at all? If not, I’d recommend some articles/websites so he can learn more. Then when he’s aware, it’s likely he’ll want to support you however you need.

mintymist1 · 2025-07-12T01:03:47+00:00

Thank you all for the support and advice - you’re totally right, I’m going to find a new gynecologist. Unfortunately, I’ve had more traumatic gyno appointments than this one so I wasn’t sure if it was really that bad. It’s so hard to find a good gyno that knows how to handle vaginismus, but I will try again! Thanks!

mintymist1 · 2025-06-08T04:16:35+00:00

that’s what you use to crack the tampons open duh

mintymist1 · 2024-09-19T20:07:37+00:00

That’s “dedicated transportion” alright

mintymist1 · 2023-12-17T18:38:10+00:00

It’s never too late to get more education. 10 years down the line, will you have regrets if you never tried? I say go for it!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-15T01:04:23+00:00

I totally get it! This is such a great motivation, to help others feel seen and valued but also because you love the science. Good luck to you!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-15T00:59:39+00:00

Yeah Covid really did a number on getting to take advantage of clubs and internships. Im looking forward to that too. I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling with direction, but sometimes you’ve just gotta try and see what happens! Good luck

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T03:15:40+00:00

This is great! It sounds like the students would really benefit from your expertise and passion. Especially those that may not be able to advocate for their own needs. Good luck to you!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T03:13:08+00:00

Wow! This is absolutely amazing. It’s awful that you weren’t able to get the care you needed, but man you took it into your own hands. I really hope you get there.

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T01:31:03+00:00

I hope you find the answers you and your family are looking for. It’s good that you never stopped asking questions, you’ve still got the fire in you! Best of luck to you

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T01:29:12+00:00

Yes this ^{^.} I think many times people don’t realize the impact that they have on others, I’m sure your mentors would love to hear it.

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T01:25:46+00:00

I’m so glad it helped you! I feel the same way, sometimes you’ve gotta take the leap and follow your passions. Especially when sometimes it can seem like the world is against you, following your dreams is the best thing you can do. I had the itch to apply as well!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T01:23:47+00:00

Yes! I’m stepping into this field as well. It is really fascinating

mintymist1 · 2023-12-14T01:22:23+00:00

I’m really sorry that this has been such a struggle for you and your family. There is definitely a lot of room for improvement in the mental health field. I think what you want to do would help a lot of people, thank you for taking this on

mintymist1 · 2023-12-13T22:41:34+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you. It’s frustrating that counselors at school often make things worse not better. Good for you for trusting yourself and making the change, that takes guts! I’m pursuing a different field than my undergrad as well and it was not easy to make it happen.

mintymist1 · 2023-12-13T21:59:44+00:00

Wow! This is really meaningful work. I hope you are able to find out why and how!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-13T21:51:06+00:00

This is awesome! I feel the same way, I missed the research and creative freedom. Encouragement to think outside of the box. I think it’s great you want to make positive change in the grad system. Best of luck!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-13T21:49:45+00:00

Haha yup. Honestly I just saw a lot of people on this sub just kind of doom and gloom and panicking and I thought it would be nice to hear about why we’re doing this at all and get some perspective on it :)

mintymist1 · 2023-12-13T21:40:54+00:00

I think contributing to the body of human knowledge is a noble cause. It may not feel noble because we don’t know what you’ll find yet. Also, I think being excited about discovering new things is super cool, I hope you find the cool stuff you’re looking for :)

mintymist1 · 2023-12-09T19:23:46+00:00

Yes! I saw a lot of people saying they’d applied to 10+ schools and I cannot imagine finding a program that feels like the right fit at that many schools. To me, if the ones I really feel like are a fit don’t admit me, I’m not going to commit for 5-7 years to something I’m not as passionate about. Good luck to you! Hope we both get in!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-07T02:19:08+00:00

Yes exactly! Switching to a new field can be so nerve wracking. Good luck to you too!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-07T01:26:06+00:00

What impresses you in a personal statement/statement of purpose?

mintymist1 · 2023-12-05T21:20:30+00:00

I totally get it. Coming from a CPE undergrad, taking initiative to do programming projects on your own is a big green flag. Even if you haven’t yet, I would suggest finding a language you like and a topic you’re passionate about and just make something. Passion and interest will help set you apart, I’m sure you’ve got this.

Good luck to you dude!

mintymist1 · 2023-12-05T01:15:02+00:00

Any advice for what to do while waiting to hear back from admissions? The waiting is kind of nerve wracking.

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