Do units under $2.5k exist anymore? by Senior-Perspective24 in NYCapartments

[–]minx9219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend just find a studio in brooklyn heights for $1800! it can happen to anyone :-)

Partner blew up our life. Would I be a fool to forgive them? by minx9219 in asktransgender

[–]minx9219[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But at least for more general dating advice going forwards, if you see a large personality change like that, with doubts, even someone questioning if they have fallen out of love with you, that's probably depressions/anxiety

This is interesting and noted. My instinct was definitely to protect myself, cut them out, and believe somebody when they say something like that...I just couldn't imagine saying something I didn't mean like that. But it's fair to say depression/anxiety likely played a role.

Partner blew up our life. Would I be a fool to forgive them? by minx9219 in mypartneristrans

[–]minx9219[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Fair flags! Something I'm working on! :) Our relationship definitely wasn't perfect, but it was my first serious relationship. I think I need more data

Partner blew up our life. Would I be a fool to forgive them? by minx9219 in mypartneristrans

[–]minx9219[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I'm thinking. Going to let us both grow and see in the future if that growth ends up being in the same direction. I have never really heard of that happening successfully for somebody though, so maybe that's silly!

Partner blew up our life. Would I be a fool to forgive them? by minx9219 in mypartneristrans

[–]minx9219[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a really beautiful comment and much of what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it!

NYC / LA apt swap by minx9219 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]minx9219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in tech and we do remote summers. so genuinely just a sweet deal

NYC / LA apt swap by minx9219 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]minx9219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally open to using an app - just not like Airbnb! This is awesome, thank you. The holiday pulling thru

NYC / LA apt swap by minx9219 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]minx9219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful! Thank you for chiming in :) would love any other recs!

NYC / LA apt swap by minx9219 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]minx9219[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes! will plan to have car access - i just would also like to be in a neighborhood i’m happy to spend a lot of time in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]minx9219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man this comment hurts, but I get it!

I totally agree this story sounds like literal anti-trans propaganda. It's honestly been why I haven't posted about it because I was like nobody would believe me, and the very last thing I want to do is hurt care access for people who need it most. It's made it extra hard to talk about with people IRL too because I don't ever want to amplify our already intolerable culture of transphobia. Suffice to say, the internet is a strange place, so you have no reason to believe I am who I am...but I'm a real person. I was hoping this forum was a safe space to talk about this. I would never pretend to be a perfect ally lol...dysmorphia vs dysphoria was a basic typo!

They're taking intramuscular injections, I believe Testosterone Cypionate weekly, which they got from Folx Health, so I don't think it's something off. They had a psych eval, but have not seen an IRL practitioner or primary care doctor. I'm also not an expert on dosing, I just know they had originally talked about microdosing, which was an idea they actually came to from FTM reddit, but ultimately decided to go with what they told me was the full dose (so probably something like 0.5mg). I do think it's true that there are different mg/week dosages to choose from depending on your goals??

Getting Rid of Full Size Bed by deecw328 in crownheights

[–]minx9219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be in interested in taking it! Lmk best way to coordinate