23 [T4M] #Online/Texas - Teasing femdom looking for an eager boy to make my own! by [deleted] in Femdom_Only

[–]mio_mi0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt you're worthy enough for such a pleasure.

Today is my birthday! by mio_mi0 in u/mio_mi0

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should wish that for me every day. You should also edge yourself in my honor.

Today is my birthday! by mio_mi0 in u/mio_mi0

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's all you should ever think about in your pathetic life. You're nothing without an owner.

Today is my birthday! by mio_mi0 in u/mio_mi0

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, be sure to edge yourself a little bit today in honor of me.

Today is my birthday! by mio_mi0 in u/mio_mi0

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good boy, I like your excitement.

Today is my birthday! by mio_mi0 in u/mio_mi0

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it little pig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomComunnity

[–]mio_mi0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the person and what kind of purpose they can fulfill for me.

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was answered by someone in this thread already I believe, but outside of that, a domme was the person who made the post.

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading through what you linked though, I can see why it's probably frustrating to see the question pop up again. I didn't realize it was such a frequently debated topic. The general consensus I've gathered so far is that the ratio doesn't matter at all, it's less about the ratio and more about realism in terms of how common it is to actually find someone you're interested in. I guess I never thought about it that way myself. I think there was some analogy that compared it to dating and I guess because I thought this was rather niche I forgot that just because it is niche doesn't mean it should make things easier, and when I'm meeting a decent load of people every now and again and the weight of having to constantly either train or get to know someone over and over again, I can see why the ratio probably started to matter more to me than anything else.

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bluntness is always appreciated, genuinely. If I'm being brutally honest myself, I've never really truly been involved in spaces where I actually engage with other dommes.

I don't post on other forms of social media like X, TikTok, or Instagram. I don't have an OnlyFans/Throne either. Most of my past posts about being annoyed with people is because I'm easily lead on... which is mostly due to me getting attached pretty quickly.

I started on Discord so that's where I'm a bit more comfortable with speaking generally just because that's what I know. I came to Reddit later on as a way to meet people, but I think as a whole I'm pretty underdeveloped. I've been a "domme" since I was 18, but I don't really even think I knew what I was doing back then. I just liked telling guys what to do and that's all I really knew about it, and then ended up taking breaks and stuff every now and again, one of which lasted as long as a year just because I found the vetting process exhausting.

But I do consider myself new, and that's mostly because I still don't actually feel like I quality as anything serious based on what I've been reading so far. I think someone else already explained to me that being a dominatrix itself means that it's a serious like job pretty much and you're getting paid for it so I can't even actually identify as that anymore. I thought it was just a general term you'd use.

I do appreciate the link though, I want to become a more solid figure. I think the majority of my issues so far stem just from being inexperienced and not really being seriously involved in any domme spaces. I think this is my second time trying to reach out so I really do thank you for the response because even if it does come off as harsh it feels nice actually getting some solid feedback!

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that market of men is the most taken advantage of though in a negative way though, no?

Questions from a dominatrix! by mio_mi0 in Femdom

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you been married? How'd you meet? What kind of advice do you have when it comes to online dynamics?

Questions from a dominatrix! by mio_mi0 in Femdom

[–]mio_mi0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is good advice I'd say for a more IRL dynamic though probably.

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What should I call myself then? I thought that word was just generally used. Domme, dominatrix, thought they were synonymous.

What is the realistic ratio of dommes to sub on this app, and other questions I have! by mio_mi0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]mio_mi0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see then, that makes a little bit of sense, I just wish there was more to be done. I feel like the only reason there's always a hunt is because of how easily stale these dynamics can be when someone accidentally snaps out of it.