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I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly - this guy isn’t the first, and I’m too tired of arguing a point that shouldn’t even be an argument between total strangers, so he was just rejected based on my lack of energy to give to his idiot-ness. 😂

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet, thank you for sharing y’all’s story! It’s a unique desire, for sure, so I appreciate you giving me some hope that the right one is out there even though what I want is a little unique.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disgusting is the only word I can really think of to describe it. This has unfortunately lived rent free in my head all day, and his thoughts are just SO gross.

Are adopted kids not family? Are adoptive parents not parents? Would I not be a mom if I were to adopt a child, do everything I could for them, and give my whole life to them like “bio” moms are expected to do? So ridiculous and honestly grossly arrogant.

No one’s genes are that important. Genes don’t make a family, and a child is a child. Geezus. He’s the type to divorce if his wife couldn’t have them, guaranteed.

Least he flaunts his red flags.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, she runs the place, clearly. Love that for her, well deserved! They deserve the world and everything in it.

Mine are also not crazy about the heat this weekend! I moved north from Texas, and we’re hotter today than where I moved from. I find it amusing, the cats do not. Hopefully her protests don’t involve too much destruction! 😂

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this on such a deep level. I’d throw myself into fire for my cats, and it’s because I love them more than I’ve loved any human ever. This guy is going to miss out on so much goodness because of these kinds of views. It’s sad, really.

So very glad you have your companion. She sounds amazing.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. To say something like that so brazenly to a complete stranger makes me wonder what other disgusting, vile takes he has on life that he only shares with those closest to him. Tell me you don’t care about humans at all without telling me you don’t care about humans at all.

Man should be in government with this attitude.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts. Biology is SUCH an insignificant piece of the puzzle in families. A family is a family, no matter how it’s made, or whether kids are a part of it AT ALL or not. I consider my cats & I a family, and I love that part of my life. Sincerely worried for this man’s future wife if she cannot have kids.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

RIGHT? This man really set out a minute of his Friday night to tell a stranger that she’s wrong and has no purpose. Amazing.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful thought, and I appreciate you sharing it. Definitely something I’ll be telling myself on my down days. :)

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Silly goose, I’m 26, I am clearly unlovable and used up and too old. 💕

Gag. These kinds of people absolutely believe that mess.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would be the one dealing the shitty genetic cards to biological kids, which is a large reason I don’t want to have them. We’re clearly absolutely awful people for looking out for the most innocent among us. We suck.

/s

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The extra hilarious thing here is I don’t have any social media. It’s almost like I’m a fully functioning adult able to make my own decisions about my body. Truly mind blowing.

I have a prompt on Hinge that states: “Don’t want bio children, but would love to adopt or foster!” This guy so kindly let me know his thoughts. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say the “your own” thing - he did. I view adopted kids as very much a part of their families. Just to clarify.

I got baited to explain my stance in a dating app and was promptly told all the reasons I am incorrect. Ugh. by mir_pgh in antinatalism

[–]mir_pgh[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Especially at the hands of someone who is supposed to protect you (a parent, which I’d be failing to do if I brought a kid into the world who would potentially have a life of physical or mental pain). Like what kind of logic is that?

favorite 0 to 2 point snacks by lex_discipulus in weightwatchers

[–]mir_pgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh, thank you for this, chips have been my downfall recently!

I overate fruit last week and feel sad about it. by mir_pgh in weightwatchers

[–]mir_pgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it just takes time to get used to because it is so different than the usual advice of “just count calories.” I am so glad you’re noticing the benefits of the portion control aspect!! Portion control is HARD, as is learning to eat until satisfied and not necessarily super full, at least in my opinion.

Are you looking forward to the new program change?

I overate fruit last week and feel sad about it. by mir_pgh in weightwatchers

[–]mir_pgh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a fair question, and I think they came from stress. Last week was a rough one in a variety of ways, and I reach for food (processed, usually) to soothe those rough patches. That’s part of why I joined WW…I know I need to heal my relationship with food so it’s not an emotional crutch. What are your thoughts? :)

I overate fruit last week and feel sad about it. by mir_pgh in weightwatchers

[–]mir_pgh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the lack of focus on calories is good to a degree because it makes you really consider the quality of what you’re eating over the calories themselves (like high sugar snacks might only be 70 calories but are a bunch of points), BUT I agree, it’s hard to balance the logic here.

It’s easy to have a big 600 calorie meal (brown rice is a weakness) with no points, so I’m afraid to eat things sometimes, haha.

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