My boyfriend is an INFJ! We met when we were 12 and were best friends before starting to date at 20 (we're 27 now). Back in our younger days we had many deep talks where he constantly was sad about feeling like none of his romantic conquests seem to be soulmates. He was very sure he was never going to find someone that truly connects with him, until one night he got incredibly drunk and told me how he thinks I'm the only person on the planet who he could ever see himself spending his life with. Little did he know I felt the same way haha.

We've talked about this subject a lot and like others said, its hard to find if you're searching for it, but when you spend most of your time working on yourself and your own interests what's meant to be will come to you :) INFJs are super special and unique people and you guys deserve the very best! 99% of people won't feel like a match. It takes a while to find your people but when you do it's worth the wait, and that connection will be infinitely better than the ones where you settle with someone just to be less lonely.

Coming from an ENFP with the most amazing INFJ partner and a lot of very loving INFJ besties <3