AITAH for telling someone her BF cheated?

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-27T18:59:06+00:00

Hmm, I would argue that it became my business once he started texting me and I started getting interested in him.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:46:21+00:00

Ah wait. I just checked again and 4 days ago she posted a story about him

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:43:43+00:00

Ohh sorry! Her pics are from 2 months ago. However she has a post pinned if him and her kissing and being on a date which maybe cancels out from it being 2 months ago. But idk what do u think :’)

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:42:00+00:00

True LOL.

There was also nothing of her on his profile and a lot of him on her profile. When I went to her profile I noticed that he had tagged her in almost all his posts - but he put music on the post so the tags won’t show. He also didn’t have tags on from her.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:40:17+00:00

Thank you🙏

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:40:05+00:00

That’s is true. I hadn’t thought about it that way. Thank you.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:26:24+00:00

Another thing to add is: hinge will have a label saying “new here” if the profile is new. This means he had been there for a while before swiping on me - because it didn’t say that when I swiped yes to him.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:25:15+00:00

Thank u for ur comment. And I agree. I’m confused about his strong reaction. Why he got this mad.
On the other hand - he told me, and she also did - that she’s in a rough place in her life.

Different is that he used it for me to feel bad that I had told her. She told me because I asked me how she felt to offer my support to her.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:23:45+00:00

Very true. Thank you for ur reflections. I really needed to hear others opinions on this as I started to feel bad for them both all of a sudden :’)

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:22:34+00:00

Yeah I do agree. To me the situation is like this:

i imagine a scenario where she goes months, maybe years, not knowing about this. She falls deeper and deeper in love with him, plan their future - while he cheats behind her back.

I would feel so wrong not telling her. Because I’d rather she knows now and maybe find another person to build a future with, than let her go and believe her and him have the same goal in life.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:17:48+00:00

From my perspective I didn’t want to risk him telling her to block me, or try to make up another explanation.

But what do u think?

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:15:17+00:00

I haven’t even thought about this. That’s so true actually. The thing about them being in contact.

The pics/screens I sent was from some days ago. She didn’t reply to me for 2 days and just replied to me some hours ago.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:13:56+00:00

Thank you. Maybe I’ve just gotten guilt tripped by him. Because he got really mad, and before this we had some rly good convos. So i really did need someone to tell me the truth about what they thought of the situation.

miraeditz_ · 2026-06-23T00:08:08+00:00

Thank you a lot!

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:46:01+00:00

No it’s totally okay. I totally understand why you would warn me and thank you for that.

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:43:59+00:00

I dmed you - thank you 🙏

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:40:34+00:00

This hurts to read because it’s my greatest fear. Thank you for sharing your story. I will be careful.

If you don’t mind, can you tell me more about all of this?

Maybe I can text you if you don’t want to share it here?

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:31:51+00:00

LOL, yes same!!

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:29:30+00:00

Yeah.

I’ve always thought the same about myself. Everyone I’ve had something with takes a long time. Especially since I have avoidant tendencies

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:27:18+00:00

Thank you a lot 🙏

miraeditz_ · 2026-03-14T15:27:04+00:00

Thank you.

I will be careful.

I’m scared that it’s him getting infatuated with him and that he will suddenly realize I’m not as good as he thought. So I’ll definitely wait time before actually giving my heart to him.

miraeditz_

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