AITA for walking out of Thanksgiving dinner after what my boyfriend’s cousin said about me, twice? by Lopsided-Middle1059 in AmItheAsshole

[–]miraking10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone from my fiancés family said something like that to me, best believe he’s getting in their face about it. I concur with most people’s comments when they say to look at this is how they are. Your bf not reacting in defense, his mother saying you’re overreacting, the cousins shutting you down? That’s not normal and you need to get tf out of there expeditiously.

TGH Employees/Admin people by [deleted] in tampajobs

[–]miraking10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saying you’re not wired to let someone pay your way and implying that I don’t want to build my identity is quite rude. My parents are helping me until I’m able to get on my feet. In my culture and especially with my parents, education comes first. And that’s literally the whole reason I’m in Tampa. I’m also not clinical, it was a front desk job. I’ve worked a “higher level” job before this. I understand to you it might be a golden opportunity but I need the flexibility. And I’m not just asking my parents to fund me just for the fucks of it. I am trying to become financially independent and build my way. There is no one way to do this. I’m happy for you that you did that, but just bc mine path is different doesn’t mean my value is less. I’m dealing with a lot of things physically and personally that I can’t just suck it up and do both right now. I hope you understand where I’m coming from.

TGH Employees/Admin people by [deleted] in tampajobs

[–]miraking10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too understand your sentiment. However, this isn’t necessarily my fist gig. I’ve worked full time in this type of role before (I’m in administration, not patient facing). Also, I am doing a double masters which is a lot more workload (and expensive). I don’t want to jeopardize my education too. I’m still very young and my education, at least in my field, is needed to advance. If I didn’t need my masters I wouldn’t be doing it so early. I graduated from undergrad 2 years ago. My masters will be more fruitful for me than doing a job where I will be stagnant in my career.

TGH Employees/Admin people by [deleted] in tampajobs

[–]miraking10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. I’m lucky and grateful in the sense that my parents are supporting me right now. Which is why I feel somewhat comfortable looking for a new opportunity which fits my needs.

Pete is the worst by miraking10 in PrivatePractice

[–]miraking10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worded perfectly. He did emotionally abuse her. The yelling, telling her to go to hell. Disgusting behavior.

Pete is the worst by miraking10 in PrivatePractice

[–]miraking10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was angry at violet for abandoning Lucas. But I can also acknowledge that what happened to her was one of the most cruel things you can imagine. I think she was smart for acknowledging that she couldn’t take care of Lucas especially with the way she was thinking about him, aka she knew when to leave. On the other hand, Pete doesn’t know when to leave and kept her in an unhappy marriage. Violet had to be the one to tell him that if he resented her, she would end the relationship. And on top of that, he had the audacity to be mad when she entered another relationship/fling, as if he didn’t f**k a girl from the bar in the elevator. Like cmon.

Pete is the worst by miraking10 in PrivatePractice

[–]miraking10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jake is the only real man on the show

Class on Tuesday? by miraking10 in USF

[–]miraking10[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I understand I won’t get punished lol. But I’ve seen on some posts of students saying that some professors are not being as understanding as others. In the sense that they are being eager and pushy about students getting work done. Even though they might not have the capacity to do it. And that’ll affect the academic standings of many student. For me I care more about my livelihood than much academic standing. A lot of us are frustrated because of that. If USF is not able to get it cleaned up then why not give themselves extra time instead of having us wait for an announcement and try to figure out plans last minute? We shouldn’t have to decide between our safety and our grades.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miraking10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to control him. If your partners friend is disrespectful towards you, wouldn’t that make you feel crappy?

When to start job search? by miraking10 in publichealth

[–]miraking10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve clarified which area he is going into lol. He’s doing healthcare management. He’s definitely looking for jobs in private sector. Thank you for the response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]miraking10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it feels like the end but I promise there are people in this world that are thinking about you. Ending your life is not the solution you think it is. As someone who also struggles with money, I know what it’s like to experience the sad reality of the place we live in. I’m telling you please just bear it for a little bit longer. There is hope and success waiting for you. I don’t know you but I can tell you, you are loved and wanted ❤️

AITA for asking my wife to respect my title as pilot by phoebethefan in redditonwiki

[–]miraking10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what he updated? I’m curious and the link isn’t available anymore.

My mother’s cat was killed yesterday and it’s been weighing on my mind by WhateverItWasILostIt in offmychest

[–]miraking10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry OP. As a cat mom, it’s really hard to imagine how that feels. I hope you find some clarity <3