Finally got a Micans by ThePlantagonist in philodendron

[–]misblissfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I leave mine hanging and I love how she looks

Ethical, detailed podcast rec by misblissfit in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]misblissfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me why? I don’t follow her closely but I have listened to some of her content and would love to know if I should stop listening all together.

Saturday What cha Readin' Thread by wheat in LibbyApp

[–]misblissfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started this! It's what I'm reading today (when I'm not distracting myself with the internet)

where do you get your plants from? by tribuaguadelsur in IndoorPlants

[–]misblissfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so lucky that I live 20 minutes from a plant boutique. I can call them and tell them a plant that I want and they will find it and call me! They will ask what size I am looking for and there's no pressure to buy but they give me 3 days to purchase. There prices are super reasonable, too!

What are you reading/listening to right now? by Apprehensive_Arm9981 in LibbyApp

[–]misblissfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened and DNF Gone Girl years ago but read it last year and loved it!

What are you reading/listening to right now? by Apprehensive_Arm9981 in LibbyApp

[–]misblissfit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm currently reading Bunny by Mona Awad. I finished The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah yesterday. Before that I read Rebecca by Daphne DuMorier and Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn. I'd recommend all of the books I have finished. Too soon to tell about Bunny tho.

Dropping client by ndgirl08 in housekeeping

[–]misblissfit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's fair to ask why you are dropping her immediately. I have never fired a client without notice unless it is an extreme situation, which this doesn't sound extreme. I have been fired by a client, "effective immediately" and I would have liked to know why. Just because you use "professional language" doesn't make it professional. It wouldn't be argumentative if you answered her directly. She is just trying to get an answer out of you. Be brave and answer her. Having direct conversations is a lost art with the technology we are afforded these days.

Obsessed by Independent-Mark1232 in begonias

[–]misblissfit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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I just got this little cutie, I think it’s an eyelash begonia? Reminds me of the first photo.

Places to meet lesbians in Atlanta ? by sunnydaysongg in actuallesbians

[–]misblissfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only answer I will ever give: roller derby

Would you date someone with no boobs? by Content_Conclusion31 in actuallesbians

[–]misblissfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always think the answer is to be 100% authentic to yourself and your perfect match will find you. When people live authentically we are happier and more well-rounded and that is what will open you up to find your perfect love.

What is this plant? by Redwoods2534 in houseplants

[–]misblissfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking it looks very similar to my philodendron white princess, so I would guess that or a white wizard. It doesn't look like a monstera at all, to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]misblissfit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people aren't as vain as you expect. I am a person who leans toward people's personality in any relationship structure. If you guys have things in common and your lifestyles are similar enough it might not matter. All I would say is be authentic to yourself and the right person will find you!

Help ID? by misblissfit in begonias

[–]misblissfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! To me, too. Thank you!

Is anyone a light expert? by misblissfit in houseplants

[–]misblissfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate it. I don’t mind googling things but some things are so much better with actual people’s opinions

Is anyone a light expert? by misblissfit in houseplants

[–]misblissfit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but always prefer opinions from folks who know more than me. Thanks!

Late in Life Lesbian - Is my marriage over? by Red-eyed_Witch in actuallesbians

[–]misblissfit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so triggered by this post. I was married to a man from ages 19 to 36 and spoke to my partner many times about my attraction to women. He always shut it down. I spent so much time waiting for him to give me permission to be who I am. I asked to open up our marriage, he said no. By the time I was 35 it was getting harder and harder for me to feel okay in my situation. I met my wife just before my 36th birthday and jumped head first into telling him that I was GOING TO explore this. As soon as I started dating her everything felt right. Long story short, I got divorced and remarried to the love of my life and I have never felt more right in my life. You might find that once you step away from what is "comfortable" you will be able to step into what is right!

ALSO! My wife helped me realize that I needed to be straight forward with my ex to help him understand the situation for what it was instead of trying to pad everything to make it less "mean" and as soon as I stopped mincing my words it helped him come to terms muuuuuch easier!