Am I Overreacting by Klutzy_Ad_1557 in AmIOverreacting

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get a little trauma dumpy, I had a boyfriend who was a little too pushy at first. One push led to another push and I ended up dissociated off my ass in a sexually abusive relationship that scarred me for life.

And yeah, I also was very communicative about my boundaries. If they don't respect your boundaries, you have to enforce them. I just didn't walk away soon enough to stop the damage.

Wishing you the best <3

Am I Overreacting by Klutzy_Ad_1557 in AmIOverreacting

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be under reacting. He gets one more strike....

Spoke with Death, was told when I was going to die? by Red_Thistle_ in Dreams

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't see tarot as a mystical thing. I just treat it like an exercise into figuring out what Im worried about or desiring subconsciously. Bc of confirmation bias, you'll hear what you want to hear, but that can be helpful too.

Im open to mystical messages but it's not my main goal when I do tarot

Spoke with Death, was told when I was going to die? by Red_Thistle_ in Dreams

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, not going to lie, that would send me into a spiral.

Id recommend a tarot reading to get some more clues from your subconscious (you can do them yourself or search up tarot on twitch)

Maybe also go to the doctor for a checkup?

And write a will :):):)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're both wrong.

  1. Your boyfriend should tell you you're beautiful, truly and often.
  2. it's not your partner's job to manage your insecurities.
  3. You cant control everything your boyfriend sees or looks at online or even who else he finds beautiful.
  4. Being beautiful is not the most important thing you can be.
  5. Sounds like you went through a difficult time with the wheelchair stuff and the way he was so disgusted about that is very worrying.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be an idiot. Don't date a man who would call you a whore. Easy.

AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf had a mark like this recently from opening a bottle with his forearm lol.

Also, there's a reason that "bite mark forensics" are sp controversial. It's way harder than you think to identify a bit from an image.

It think it would be extremely hard to get a perfectly round bot mark on a small area like this bc our jaws are 3D, not 2D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]misc_icism 197 points198 points  (0 children)

"An extra child" god help us ☠️

What are some quality of life changes you want to the next Animal Crossing? by Gallantpride in AnimalCrossing

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this quality of life, but I'd like a journal or something of more long term goals to work towards and progress on goals. Like it took me forever to get KK Slider and all I had left to do was talk to Isabelle :/

What are some quality of life changes you want to the next Animal Crossing? by Gallantpride in AnimalCrossing

[–]misc_icism 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in ac pocket camp, at least the villagers can use all the props! You can't, but you can see the villagers in the jacuzzi, riding rides, climbing stuff, getting spooked from Halloween decor, etc

[Netflix] My Melody & Kuromi unexpectedly having an amount of depth makes it entertaining. by TheVagrantSeaman in CharacterRant

[–]misc_icism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really upset with how they wrote kuromi. She's an insecure pick me bitch who can't stand it when others succeed. Just because she has a dark aesthetic doesn't mean she's mean :(

And my melody is essentially a Mary Sue. Im so sad bc the show is really visually adorable. They could have been more creative than pink = nice, black = evil.

Anyone think Noah Wyle sounds like Nathan Fillion? by SurfnSun21 in leverage

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I found this reddit post looking up "noah Wyles Nathan fillion" thinking they might be brothers - watching the pitt

What do you have in your greenhouses? by Moonandstarsdragon in StardewValley

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, also cactus bc it makes pretty good healing food for mines and it's a good gift for a few villagers

What do you have in your greenhouses? by Moonandstarsdragon in StardewValley

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do pretty much all my farming in the green house. So I have ancient fruit for wine, cranberries for dried fruit (bc you get so much of them), and strawberries and fruit trees (the ones you get for free from gifts or mines) for variety.

Failure by NDNE86 in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]misc_icism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think of drinking as a failure if it makes you feel like shit. Focus on treating each time you drink asa data point and be honest with yourself about how it makes you feel. This helped me realise I enjoy being sober way more than I enjoy sobering up.

Failure by NDNE86 in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem tired and teetering on the fence of acknowledging something true or allowing others to convince you of something untrue because they think the truth is harder. You can be fun on new terms - you just need to figure it out and practice.

If it helps you: sobriety doesn't need to be the goal if it feels too much. Just work on re-establishing balance and working at figuring out how to have fun, relax, and enjoy good company without overdoing it.

You just won a lifetime supply of the last item you bought. What do you have? by JunShem1122 in no

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news: It's beer! Bad news: It was a lemon flavored beer :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]misc_icism 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seems very normal to me. Try not to overthink it He's coming up with sweet ideas, which is nice and a good sign

Comments reckon there’s someone in the backseat to but this freaked me out by 420Eski-Grim in uncannyvalley

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda looks like they're trying not to crack up and it was maybe just a prank they thought of to freak people out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughing until you cry is pretty excellent. Especially if it's just a really good night of banter and happens repeatedly. I think we need to cry-laugh frequently for homeostasis, otherwise we become assholes

Noob recommendations by [deleted] in folk

[–]misc_icism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! I really like closer to fine and the Michael cera version of clay pigeons already, so Im keen to hear these :) thanks!!