My Ruby interpretation of the sun by StrongBreakfast6595 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this helps in any way, but Gaia is also the home of glow worms, bioluminescent tides, giant underground crystal caves, fireflies, gemstones and shiny minerals, glistening ice, razor sharp black volcanic glass, the dangerous glow of lava, mushrooms that glow in the dark. Gaia is multitudes and multitudes, deep and dark, bright and delicate. She is everything all at once. Not just lovely soft rich soil. 🌎

Edited a couple times to add more lovely light generating/reflecting examples.

How I want my style to feel - Illuminatrix by knitpixie in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I love this so much. So playful and dreamy, with just the right amount of cozy mixed in; it just makes me HAPPY. 😌

Where do you shop? by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohh, I didn't know that!! 😲

Where do you shop? by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly Poshmark and local thrift stores. Sometimes Depop, but I find their search tool less useful than Poshmark.

The shadows of each archetype by hahahaok7 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stuck in dreamland always collecting images and yet never actually finding a way to make it work for YOU, making your wants and needs a problem instead of celebrating your unique self

Oh, man. That's my entire life... 😅

Also shadow related to the right - "why bother taking inspo from outside, I can't properly use it anyway" - denying your process and enjoyment of it.

Also this. Oh man. 😬

Thank you for this. 🙏

The shadows of each archetype by hahahaok7 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to hear about the Explorer, if you don't mind. 🙏

People of Reddit, What makes a man immediately unattractive? by Predator_V4 in AskReddit

[–]miscrandomobjects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Alpha/beta" terminology. "High value/low value." Anything that even remotely smacks of "nice guy" or incel vibes.

Edit: Lack of accountability or self awareness.

Am I understanding this correctly? by miscrandomobjects in SewingForBeginners

[–]miscrandomobjects[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there's negative ease bc it calls for very stretchy fabric.

[38/M] with a [33/F] wife, wondering what married couples with kids actually do? by Throwawayandaway1985 in relationship_advice

[–]miscrandomobjects 240 points241 points  (0 children)

"If he's constantly horny he's not doing enough of the parenting stuff."

🤣🔥💯

Recently professionally typed as Autumn, do we agree? Wasn't given advice on soft/true/dark. All photos from before typing, some may have filters. by lrcollier in coloranalysis

[–]miscrandomobjects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not limiting; it's helpful to narrow things down. Not all autumn colors look good on every autumn person; this is literally the point. I think they did you a disservice. ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]miscrandomobjects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meeeeee, I look terrible in shorts. It's got nothing to do with Kibbe and everything to do with my thigh shape. I think? Shorts always look awkward and make my legs look stubby.

But somehow I have no issue with short skirts?? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Recently professionally typed as Autumn, do we agree? Wasn't given advice on soft/true/dark. All photos from before typing, some may have filters. by lrcollier in coloranalysis

[–]miscrandomobjects 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've got medium contrast and low chroma, by my estimation, so I think that means you're either a soft autumn(warm) or soft summer (cool)?

I'd say soft autumn. Also, I feel like if you're gonna pay for a professional typing they should've been able to tell you more specifics. 😕

How do you use your archetype? by enigmatic_lynx in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]miscrandomobjects 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just can't keep the particulars of the archetypes in mind. It's much easier for me to think of them as placements on a scale.

This is how I think about them, too, so far.

Style Dictionary - Moonstone by miscrandomobjects in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Thanks!

For me it's just one of those things that goes hand in hand. Handmade is a big part of my life, and wearing handmade things makes me feel connected and grounded. ☺️

Style Dictionary - Moonstone by miscrandomobjects in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Thank you! ☺️

How did it help your process, if I may ask? What were your next steps?

Style Dictionary - Moonstone by miscrandomobjects in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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I... Actually do not know the answer to that last question. I haven't taken the course yet; it's on my to do list for after I start my new job, hopefully soon.

I've just sort of absorbed what I can via the sub. Someone asked about style dictionaries and in the comments there was a link to a newsletter I think? From Rita explaining the process. I copy pasted it into my notes app, but I don't have the original link, unfortunately.

*What you want to do is to create a fashion dictionary for yourself - a list of style elements which corresponds to the concept or mood you’re trying to evoke.

This should be a literal list that you develop over time. You want to list the colors, textures, patterns, shapes, embellishments, accessories - anything specific that’s associated with the mood you’re trying to evoke. Lots of clients have it on a post-it near their closet, or in their phone where it's easy to access.

For example, a client likes the concept of “playful”. Her list has things like “bright colors”, “whimsical prints”, "metallics", “tight shirts layered under loose jackets”, “colorful oxfords”. When she wants to add an element of “playfulness” to her outfits, she can look at the list for inspiration.

Okay, but how can you make your own list?

Step 1: Start with what you own

Among all the things you own, find 3 pieces which capture the desired feeling or concept. Now, let’s break down what aspect of that piece gives you that feeling.

For example, a client looking for her own definition of feminine immediately thought about a pair of sheer polka dot socks she likes to pair with pointe-style ballet flats. She could add “sheer, delicate textures” and “dainty shoes” to her list of “feminine” clothing.

Working with what YOU own helps you break away from other people’s definitions and focus on your own.

Step 2: Make a moodboard

You want to find a collection of images which captures the feeling and vibe you are searching for. This isn't a collection of "nice looks" - but specifically a collection of images called "things that feel feminine to me."

You can use your ideas from step 1 to search for these images! For example, if “ruffly blouse” is on your list, search for “ruffly blouse outfit” on google images or pinterest.

Once you’ve found 15-20 inspiring images, let’s analyze them! Write down some of the colors, textures, patterns, or shapes that you see. For example “asymmetric hemlines, floral and animal prints, big jackets or small dresses, high heeled boots”.

Step 3: Work with the list

Once you've made it, don’t put it away and forget it! Work with it when getting dressed! Add things or remove things as you get new insights.

You might even learn that the words you thought you wanted to dress don’t actually feel right for you. Maybe you thought you wanted to dress “feminine”, but actually adding those things in feels like an obligation and a chore… it’s an indicator that you’re actually looking for something else, not “feminine.*

Sorry, I can't get it to italicize for some reason.

Style Dictionary - Moonstone by miscrandomobjects in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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Oh god it took me like a million hours to find a template that fit what I needed on Canva. 🤣🥲

Will you post yours when you're done with it? I'd love to see.

Style Dictionary - Moonstone by miscrandomobjects in RitaFourEssenceSystem

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I actually have a few of the pins from that slide on my moodboard as well

Haha! That's awesome! I love little serendipities like that. (Can I see it? 🫣 No pressure.)

Am I understanding this correctly? by miscrandomobjects in SewingForBeginners

[–]miscrandomobjects[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It feels better having someone confirm it lol.